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#405253 - 07/29/12 10:57 PM Re: What past made us what we are [Re: Country]
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Registered: 10/25/10
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Originally Posted By: Country
God is NO monster. God is the ultimate healer and comforter. I am sorry that you feel this way toward him. I know that you are entitled to your opinion as am I. I wish you the best for the future. God brought me out of the darkness and misery I was in. Without him I am certain I would be dead. Peace brother

Wow, Country - thanks for pointing that out. It's obviously not how I meant it, but I should have been better at proof-reading how that post read. I'm a bit secular, and while God may not have saved me, I certainly don't think He is a monster. I edited that post accordingly.
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#405255 - 07/29/12 11:41 PM Re: What past made us what we are [Re: whome]
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Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 6317
Loc: 2 NATO Nations
-Always was VERY small for my age
-Had virtually no protectors on earth
-Mother in a wheelchair from before my birth
-Father a drinker
-Father an ultra-violent, psychotic Robbie-beater to crazy limits
-Older boys knew "vulnerable" when they saw it
-Older boys were pre-sexualized by porn and a strong sense of entitlement
-My own violent reaction to rape caused me to be hated by entire neighborhood
-Did not even approach puberty till 15.5 yo
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#405257 - 07/30/12 12:38 AM Re: What past made us what we are [Re: Chase Eric]
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Registered: 02/29/12
Posts: 642
Loc: Alabama
Sorry if I misread the post Eric. Thanks for the open mind bro. Hope all is well
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Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

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#405259 - 07/30/12 12:41 AM Re: What past made us what we are [Re: scottyg]
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Registered: 02/29/12
Posts: 642
Loc: Alabama
I see the point. Thanks for the post and clarifying it to a point where it was clear to me. We are all here for each other after all. I see the broadness of the question now. Sorry if my post came across like I was attacking. Thanks
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Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

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#405260 - 07/30/12 12:41 AM Re: What past made us what we are [Re: whome]
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Registered: 03/14/12
Posts: 61
Loc: private
Parents divorced when I was age 8, after the divorce my first perp (a male babysitter) groomed me. From then on I think it was known there was one less parent around to watch out for perps and I was dealt a landslide of sexual abuse by 8 different perps which occurred over a period of years. Including a teacher and a coach.
Excuse my rage, but I am enjoying the ruination of "Perp State" good! Make an example of "Perp State". I hope all places of "learning" are tembling in their boots.

As an aside, If I hear news that family or friends are getting divorced (if they have kids) I do my best to explain to them they should not fight (total waste of time energy and abusive) and BOTH parents should make a strong presence to ALL people who come in contact with thier kid(s).
I also suggest any and all other available family members make a strong presence up to annoucning to EVERYONE they are watching too!

Of course this cannot occur if your family members are the abusers.

After reading about brothers who abuse brothers, I no longer wish I had a brother. My sisters were kind and although they were treated better, we get along well today.

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#405283 - 07/30/12 09:00 AM Re: What past made us what we are [Re: Country]
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Registered: 10/25/10
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Originally Posted By: Country
Sorry if my post came across like I was attacking. Thanks

I never took it like that. No worries. smile
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#405304 - 07/30/12 01:23 PM Re: What past made us what we are [Re: whome]
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Registered: 05/16/12
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