For me, F&F is the toughest place to tread.
For me too. Sometimes I want to vent and if I read to much I find something new to be annoyed about.
Anyway, she never wrote back...never said a word. That's not her fault.
When my H first started therapy he wrote me letters. At the time I was to PO'd to reply without being nasty so I never did respond to them. He asked me at one point to write a letter for his DWI class about how his accident effected me. It was supposed to be 1 paragraph and it was 4 pages where I just ripped him to shreds. He was embarrassed to hand it in but he did. I wasn't proud of that so afterwards I wouldn't communicate much until I came to a place where I could be constructive/supportive instead of just verbally beating up on the crime victim.