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#404887 - 07/26/12 01:01 PM A new tradition
scottyg Offline


Registered: 06/26/12
Posts: 253
Loc: Seattle
Hello, my name is scottyg and i am a MaleSurvivor-aholic.
Today is my one month anniversary since I joined MS.

I have learned from ASA survivors that anniversaries are very triggering. As an anti-trigger I am starting a celebration of healing by commemorating the date I joined. I encourage every Survivor to take a wellness holiday for themselves on the anniversary of the day they joined. Post about good things in your life, the healing things. Pat yourself on the back for being you. Standing ovations are nice but too often we undervalue ourselves even as others praise us. Your anniversary for joinind MS is your day to tell the world I made it, I will continue to make it and I am not alone!

Words cannot express how much inspiration and wisdom, how much acceptance and healing I derrive from this community. I am truly humbled to be in your presence. I have learned from all of you, so thanks to all the contributers who've taken the time to share. This space is the gift that a lonely, lonely soul has been needing his whole life.

-Scott (now where's my cake?)
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#404890 - 07/26/12 01:20 PM Re: A new tradition [Re: scottyg]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3603
Loc: South-East Europe
Hey Scott,
congratulations for your first month here smile!
This is great initiative. You brought some positive energy and humor here and that is something that we all needed, thank you!
Pero

PS here is cake for you as reminder that we don't like loneliness, this is past so lets eat it as fast as possible smile


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#404892 - 07/26/12 01:38 PM Re: A new tradition [Re: scottyg]
scottyg Offline


Registered: 06/26/12
Posts: 253
Loc: Seattle
Nice, Pero. Looks delicious. Now, Do I have to win before I can eat it?
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I've got a bike you can ride it if you like.
Its got a basket, a bell that rings
And many other things to make it look good.
I'd give it to you if I could -but I've borrowed it.

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#404895 - 07/26/12 01:50 PM Re: A new tradition [Re: scottyg]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3603
Loc: South-East Europe
Hey you already won, you discovered MS and you survived first month wink
but we should wait for full party and others to join, I wonder would anyone bring some present for you? wink
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#404910 - 07/26/12 05:03 PM Re: A new tradition [Re: scottyg]
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Registered: 03/07/10
Posts: 1344
Hi Scott,

Happy one month at MS.

I hope you don't mind that I am a bit disheveled, but I have been slaving away in the kitchen (again) to bake your cake.

You did not specify which flavor(s) you like, so I hope you like this.

One layer vanilla; one layer chocolate; strawberry in teh center and whipped cream icing. (a full sheet cakes)

The icing MUST be kept cold, so please keep the cake in the refrigerator.

Oh, and before anyone gets the idea that I am the resident baker around here -- Don't!!!

Enjoy.

Happy one month.




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#404925 - 07/26/12 07:34 PM * [Re: scottyg]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/29/13 11:42 AM)

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#404976 - 07/27/12 06:38 AM Re: A new tradition [Re: scottyg]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
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Loc: South-East Europe
Hi Gary, Happy four months smile!
I've brought some present for you!
Some bird told me that you always dreamed to watch stars, so here is telescope for you:



and I brought some music too, it will be hell of a party, just for you guys!

Pero smile


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#405019 - 07/27/12 03:51 PM Re: A new tradition [Re: scottyg]
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Registered: 05/16/12
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/26/14 07:29 PM)
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#405024 - 07/27/12 04:18 PM Re: A new tradition [Re: scottyg]
scottyg Offline


Registered: 06/26/12
Posts: 253
Loc: Seattle
Gary! Happy 4 Months! I got you a little gift...

I'm having it sent to you in Indiana. There may be some nominal shipping charges you'll need to absorb.

Geoff! Happy Two months! Still shopping....

-Scotty G

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