Those are excellent points for the conversation.
In my own situation I am speaking more specifically to business dealings and relationships. As a result of CSA-related symptoms I tend to undervalue myself, my skill set, and my worth. I sacrifice myself for the good of the team, the company, or the project. I do so subconsciously but strong enough that the message overrides my words and actions.
"A burned bridge can be a gift; it prevents us from returning to a place we should have never been."