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#40119 - 12/03/03 10:07 AM this i don't know why
duncan Offline
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Registered: 10/29/03
Posts: 36
Loc: Los Angeles, CA
i feel like i have a connection with a chat person - don't know why - but at the same time i feel like telling him a lot of stuff - anyway - that's for some reason in my mind - it is so overwhelming - in a way - and yet i really want to tell somebody - my dreams never seemed like - it was never ok to go for any of it - or my desire i was the outsider and i wasn't entitles to have a personal life beyond the threat to my abusers or the reinforcers - i just wish someone were there who would say it was ok - you know?

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#40120 - 12/03/03 10:09 AM Re: this i don't know why
duncan Offline
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Registered: 10/29/03
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Loc: Los Angeles, CA
and ....the ultimate fantasy - someone who wanted to go where i am going -

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#40121 - 12/03/03 11:41 AM Re: this i don't know why
Andrew Offline
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Registered: 07/25/03
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Which chat room are you talking about? I would urge you to be just a little bit cautious. Chat rooms can be very helpful, but still, exercise a little caution. Peace, Andrew

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#40122 - 12/03/03 12:50 PM Re: this i don't know why
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
Hi Duncan try the chat room here under Survivors in the header. Lots of great guys there in the evening.

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#40123 - 12/03/03 05:02 PM Re: this i don't know why
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Thanks - I will be cautious -
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#40124 - 12/03/03 08:07 PM Re: this i don't know why
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
Duncan
I don't use the MS chat room, the time difference with the UK is too much, but I have used 'local' ones.
And unfortunately my experience hasn't been that good, nobody's hurt me or anything like that; but my personal view is that it's something I would use once I had gained a certain amount of trust of the other users in a forum, where things move slower and I have time to think a bit more.

I don't doubt that there are a lot of guys who think the opposite, and I hope they give their views to help you make your mind up, but hey - you're doing that anyway.

It's good to be a bit cautious.

Dave

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#40125 - 12/03/03 10:15 PM Re: this i don't know why
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Registered: 07/15/02
Posts: 2080
Loc: Milwaukee, WI
Hi Duncan,

Could you say a little bit more about where you waqnt to go? I did not understand some of your message. It is good to be able to tell someone about the qabuse we suffered. But that someone needs to be very understanding and accepting. To spill our guts and then have someone make us feel like we are from another planet is clearly no help.

Bob

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