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#400139 - 06/11/12 04:56 PM i need to share this
marksnoxell Offline


Registered: 06/02/12
Posts: 5
i need to say how i feel, growing up i feel i always gave love but never got it back, Winston gave it back look what happened to him i let him down killed A14 tonight i just feel i wish i had a something someone here just feeling the fact im on my own just a screen for friends frown i think i need to get a pet cos i cant do this much longer, my heart is aching and with none to hug or love it gets worse and worse frown

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#400151 - 06/11/12 07:19 PM Re: i need to share this [Re: marksnoxell]
Gretta Offline


Registered: 09/17/11
Posts: 239
Hey Mark there are groups out there and they have been great for my husband. Caring loving men who have been supportive. Alot of give and take from this group and my husband feels renewed when he is able to get together with them. A pet is not a bad idea either. We got a pup a year ago and he is my husbands side kick. Hang in there. Sorry your heart is aching but I know the feeling.

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#400160 - 06/11/12 08:34 PM Re: i need to share this [Re: marksnoxell]
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Registered: 09/29/11
Posts: 98
Loc: NJ
Hey Mark.. (((Mark))) you are not alone. Sorry its just a screen message but you are not alone. Feelings are feelings, they pass they change they evolve. But most importantly, you have to feel them. That is how we grow and change. It sucks sometimes but keep talking, there are many who are here to support you.
-Anne
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God is my teacher, Jesus my comfort and the Holy Spirit my protector.
I AM Listening...

Thank you Mother Mary.
Pray the Rosary every day. http://www.comepraytherosary.org/

I BELIEVE IN HER PROMISE.

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#400161 - 06/11/12 08:34 PM Re: i need to share this [Re: marksnoxell]
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Registered: 09/29/11
Posts: 98
Loc: NJ
Tell us about Winston.
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God is my teacher, Jesus my comfort and the Holy Spirit my protector.
I AM Listening...

Thank you Mother Mary.
Pray the Rosary every day. http://www.comepraytherosary.org/

I BELIEVE IN HER PROMISE.

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#400171 - 06/11/12 10:13 PM Re: i need to share this [Re: marksnoxell]
marksnoxell Offline


Registered: 06/02/12
Posts: 5
This is straight from my book im writing :

Now as I previously said growing up I had a dog he was called Winston
He was a collie mix breed brown and white cute white stripe down the middle of his skull.
Winston, Winnie, Winnie pooh, and when cross Winston church hill.
The most lovable sweetest dog you could hope for.
He knew all my secrets there in good times, there as comforter in bad times.
If things got me down I used to have a cuddle with Winston.
And if they were really bad me and Winston would go for a run in the corn field up the back of our house.
I remember 4 things about Winston.
1) His soul mate Margret heath if Winston went missing got out you waited and hour or two then rang Margret heath cos he legged it to the duck pond from the duck pond to the river got nice and muddy. And then turned up on Margret’s door step whining and scratching to get in.
2) If Winston dint want to be in the room he was in he would get on two paws and open the door himself to let himself out.
3) One year at Christmas Winston felt left out so when we were out he got hold of my advent choice calendar and helped himself.
4) After a long day at school/collage Winston was waiting for me.
No really school he was tied to the railing outside the school still there waiting to jump up and kiss me. Collage id get off the bus and waiting on train platform you guessed it Winston with mum of course ready for a short journey from Woodbridge to Melton station.
Winston Yans Best friend. Sadly just after Margret heath died Winston got out of the garden via a dodgy gate he got on the A14 busy dual carriage way and was sadly crush by a car the car couldn’t stop.
I’d like to think he made it to be with Margret forever in heaven.


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#400175 - 06/11/12 11:17 PM Re: i need to share this [Re: marksnoxell]
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Registered: 03/14/12
Posts: 61
Loc: private
Dogs just love,love,love...I think you should get another Dog if at all possible. That's what we call "pet therapy" LOL!

I volunteer for the Humane Society here in the USA, when I have time. I meet great people there and have made some good, understanding, long term friends through the society.

Of course a men's group as Gretta sugggested sounds like a great idea, but why not try to do both!!

May Winston rest in peace.

Kurt

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#400391 - 06/14/12 01:08 AM Re: i need to share this [Re: marksnoxell]
colours Offline


Registered: 06/05/12
Posts: 23
Loc: Australia


Treasured Friend

I lost a treasured friend today

The little dog who used to lay

Her gentle head upon my knee

And shared her silent thoughts with me.

She’ll come no longer to my call

Retrieve no more her favourite ball

A voice far greater than my own

Has called her to his golden throne.

Although my eyes are filled with tears

I thank him for the happy years

He let her spend down here with me

And for her love and loyalty.

When it is time for me to go

And join her there, this much I know

I shall not fear the transient dark

For she will greet me with a bark.

Author Unknown

Rest In Peace Winston thankyou for giving the gift of your love to our friend Mark while you were still here.

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#400435 - 06/14/12 04:48 PM Re: i need to share this [Re: marksnoxell]
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