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#397034 - 05/13/12 11:54 PM she said YES!
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
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Loc: somewhere in Africa
This weekend - it was one of the best things that ever happened to me - my wife said to me - out of the clear blue sky - "i'm glad i married you."

i couldn't believe it! i said - "even with all the stuff you didn't know you were getting into...?"

... she said: "YES!" ... and then ...
"it's called COMMITTMENT!"

i am still flying high!!!

LEE
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#397048 - 05/14/12 01:12 AM * [Re: traveler]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 02:29 PM)

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#397064 - 05/14/12 04:22 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3663
Loc: South-East Europe
Your post Lee has brought smile to my face smile !
I'm very happy for you, thanks for sharing so positive feelings with us. Wee all need more those YES!
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#397065 - 05/14/12 04:29 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 05/05/12
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Loc: Johannesburg, South Africa
Lee

That is true love, I know the feeling, when I told my wife 10 years ago, she accepted me as I was.

To be accepted with all our past baggage, warts and all, if truly amazing.

Well done....enjoy the high.
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#397101 - 05/14/12 10:54 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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yeah - it's almost as important as the first "i do!" we were so dumb and clueless way back then. to re-affirm it now - with all the history and ups and downs and the struggles means so much.

Lee
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"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself... And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity." - Paulo Coelho


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#397105 - 05/14/12 11:24 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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You have a very special woman to stand by you all these years--definitely she valued for better or worse. Glad for you

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#397156 - 05/14/12 09:02 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 04/21/12
Posts: 27
Happy for you both!!
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#397167 - 05/14/12 10:09 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
GoodHope Offline
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Registered: 07/05/11
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YES!!!!
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#397204 - 05/15/12 04:21 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 11/01/11
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Loc: USA
Well, of COURSE she said yes! You are a greater human being than you give yourself credit for! smile

(((Lee)))
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#397245 - 05/15/12 02:13 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
Gretta Offline


Registered: 09/17/11
Posts: 239
Yahoo!

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#397265 - 05/15/12 03:47 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
whome Offline
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Registered: 05/07/11
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Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
Lee

That's great. It is always good to have someone in your corner when you are dealing with CSA recovery.
I pray that she doesn't overlook the need to heal herself while she is supporting you.

Keep moving forward Lee, I feel that you are going to accomplish great things.

Heal well
Martin
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#397269 - 05/15/12 04:01 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 03/16/11
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Loc: Louisiana, USA
I am so happy for you Lee.

Jim
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