I read this (F&F) board a few times a week and im not a real big poster, but i get a lot of helpfull information from just being here and reading stuff from the partners point of view.
Some ladies here sometimes comment in a very emotional and sometimes pissed of way.
I have no problem with that what so ever because it reflects my feelings and trauma as a suporter perfectly and most of the time i just sit here nodding like a idiot when reading this board. The questions that are posted here by suporters are great, they are mind provoking for me. I hope this does not change, after all this is a F&F forum.
Next to this, i must say that i am sometimes triggered by some stories here, and i don't know how that works for the other suporters.
Mostly stories written by survivors about their relations with their partners. The story about the man who was unable to love his senior wife, i felt sick for a week after reading that. And i get just so angry and sad and i just cry for all those suporters and the fall out of all this CSA crap. I hate it. And i just feel like an open wound. I am traumatised, healing, but long gone over it.
The lack (or unabilaty) to love, the ignoring, the whole PTSD circus, it just taps into my biggest fears i guess, about ending up the same way. I also wonder sometimes about the purpose of some posts. And the purpose of this forum. Ofcourse the post with resolutions, helpfull info, that help the suporters help, are the best for F&F.
So my guess is Martin, that there some "partner triggering" going on, although i can only speak for myself in this matter.
Just a my 2 ct's