you're absolutely right, there are so many people who just come along and have a read - we get on average 1,307 visitors a day - and how many are actually using the forums ?
It's a "good news - bad news" figure though, it means that MS is getting noticed, but it's sad that there are so many men out there who in desperation must type "sexual abuse" into Google and hope something turns up.
Well, we turn up. A site where men and those that help and love us come to further our healing. Sometimes logging on here is the first thing an abused man ever does.
It doesn't matter if you're new to the whole business of healing or been at it for years, this is the best site there is.
The skill and proffessionalism of our Board is second to none, the site is well Moderated and safe, and the guys using the site provide so much help, support and friendship. What more could a site give ?
So, if you're just passing through stop and think a while. Is what we're talikng about here something you recognise ?
Not everyone thinks that they've been abused, I certainly just thought that what happened when I was a boy was "sex that I took part in" - and I thought that for over thirty years.
It wasn't - it was ABUSE !
If you didn't want that sex as a boy, and it's giving you trouble now - then log on.
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