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#394388 - 04/22/12 12:55 AM * [Re: dragon]
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#394663 - 04/23/12 09:50 PM Re: confused in a huge mess [Re: dragon]
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As an adult learning healthy relationship boundaries was extremely difficult growing up in an incestuous household. Many times I recreated this same 'no boundary' situation because I knew of no other way. Enmeshment equated to love back in those days.

Now at 56 (seems ancient but it's not) I understand and relish having healthy boundaries because it allows me to have intimacy with others. And allows me to love and be loved.

This is a far cry from where I began my journey.

My hats off to you for taking the leap of faith to tell your story and began your journey of truth finding and healing.

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#394672 - 04/23/12 10:53 PM Re: confused in a huge mess [Re: HunterH777]
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Loc: on the river between Hades n V...
TY...
alot has gone on i think its time to update

Jayy
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I want justice I want you overthrown;I want courage I want to stand alone;I want your arrogance and I want your pain;I want your everything and I want you dead--- Rev Theory: Justice

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#394673 - 04/23/12 10:59 PM Re: confused in a huge mess [Re: dragon]
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I don't want to look back;I just want to start again;Somebody save me--- Pop Evil: Broken and Betrayed

I want justice I want you overthrown;I want courage I want to stand alone;I want your arrogance and I want your pain;I want your everything and I want you dead--- Rev Theory: Justice

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#394692 - 04/24/12 12:17 AM * [Re: HunterH777]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 05:30 PM)

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#394694 - 04/24/12 12:20 AM * [Re: dragon]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 05:30 PM)

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#394699 - 04/24/12 01:01 AM Re: confused in a huge mess [Re: Smalltown80sBoy]
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I don't want to look back;I just want to start again;Somebody save me--- Pop Evil: Broken and Betrayed

I want justice I want you overthrown;I want courage I want to stand alone;I want your arrogance and I want your pain;I want your everything and I want you dead--- Rev Theory: Justice

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#394702 - 04/24/12 01:07 AM Re: confused in a huge mess [Re: dragon]
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Jayy - brave step you took. i think you did the right thing. i wanted to suggest it but was afraid you were so dependent upon the living situation that it would either be impossible for you to do - or that you would find it too traumatic to leave one of the few sources of (admittedly mixed!) emotional support.

you are taking control of your life. that is such a good thing.
keep growing!
Lee
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"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself... And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity." - Paulo Coelho


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#394709 - 04/24/12 01:35 AM Re: confused in a huge mess [Re: traveler]
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I don't want to look back;I just want to start again;Somebody save me--- Pop Evil: Broken and Betrayed

I want justice I want you overthrown;I want courage I want to stand alone;I want your arrogance and I want your pain;I want your everything and I want you dead--- Rev Theory: Justice

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#394856 - 04/25/12 12:35 AM * [Re: dragon]
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