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#394522 - 04/22/12 10:52 PM * [Re: Obi]
Smalltown80sBoy Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 03/25/12 Posts: 1508	* Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 04:26 PM)
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#394523 - 04/22/12 11:00 PM * [Re: KMCINVA]
Smalltown80sBoy Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 03/25/12 Posts: 1508	* Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 04:26 PM)
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#394582 - 04/23/12 07:54 AM Re: need to take a serious look [Re: Smalltown80sBoy]
Obi Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/28/09 Posts: 1126 Loc: kansas	Originally Posted By: Smalltown80sBoy Originally Posted By: Obi i've been speaking to a person on fb that flat out refuses to post here, and hasn't for a long time now, because he's tired of all the attacks that have been happening. he's seen one of his fellow survivor brothers here get ripped to shreds, in a now deleted thread, that took place in another section of this board. he couldn't believe the hostility this survivor was getting from others. thankfully, the mods got rid of that thread quickly.. Oh no! I'm really sorry. I hope this fb friend comes back. Male Survivor is making my nights so much more bearable. I mean it. I am crying as I type this. I can't lose any of you guys. Please let's work this out. this is why i posted this thread..... to hopefully wake everyone up... to stop this war that is going on amongst fellow survivors here in all of it's forms that have taken place throughout this site... the war is not with each other! the war is against the abusers, and the myths, that have put us all here in the first place.... we should be supporting each other in this fight, not tearing each other down.... _________________________ live another day. climb a little higher. my story my vlog
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#394587 - 04/23/12 09:02 AM Re: need to take a serious look [Re: Obi]
peroperic2009 Moderator MaleSurvivor Registered: 10/09/11 Posts: 2461 Loc: South-East Europe	Hey Obi, I admire your intention with this thread! I see also need to somehow keep all of as aware of some sort of problematic behavior here. I've had couple of posts that could be taken as let say "problematic" and not insensitive even I didn't have any intention to make such impression... For example I wasn't at all aware that some brothers could be let say high while here, or in some very fragile state or in pain; so some words directed to them should be very delicately chosen. And I was totally unaware of such possibility at tall in first place. So I guess we have to do some additional homework about good communication here. I see also additional need to transfer such information to newcomers (I also consider my self as relatively new here) who could also be unaware of possibility that some brother could be in pain while writing and posting and that we all have to take some caution while we are here... I hope that your friend would come back here again! Pero _________________________ My story
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#394653 - 04/23/12 08:13 PM * [Re: peroperic2009]
Smalltown80sBoy Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 03/25/12 Posts: 1508	* Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 04:28 PM)
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#394654 - 04/23/12 08:16 PM * [Re: Obi]
Smalltown80sBoy Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 03/25/12 Posts: 1508	* Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 04:28 PM)
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