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#393374 - 04/14/12 12:14 AM Have to admit it
phoenix321 Offline


Registered: 09/26/11
Posts: 912
Loc: USA, FL
I resisted the transgender label. Due to the CSA, my orientation changed due to the male dying and a female taking over. She's gone now but there was only females in the system. Still have DID (both of us female). Thing is I'm not gay. Just always lived female. Scored 80% female on male/female psych exam. If I'm really going to find out who I am inside, I can't fight it any longer. I'd love SRS but it's not possible now. Embrace who you are. I wasn't true to myself in this. It caused a lot of shit. Any on here like me? (met one already) Thank you. xoxo
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A guy opens the front door and sees a snail on his doorstep. He picks up the snail and throws it across the street in a neighbor's yard. A year later, the guy opens the front door and the same snail is on his doorstep. The snail says, "What the f*ck was that about?"

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#393390 - 04/14/12 02:11 AM Re: Have to admit it [Re: phoenix321]
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3599
Loc: South-East Europe
Hey Phoenix,
first thyroid than other operations are options - just teasing with you smile !
I'm glad that you have decided to share your intimacy with us.
You have been very brave, you have my hat off because of all this!
Embrace who you are - that should be mantra for all of us.
I hope that someone else would show whit similar issues, it is terrible to be alone....
Here is huge hug for you my friend (((((Phoenix)))))

Pero
xoxo
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#393391 - 04/14/12 02:15 AM * [Re: phoenix321]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 05:16 PM)

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#393445 - 04/14/12 03:11 PM Re: Have to admit it [Re: peroperic2009]
phoenix321 Offline


Registered: 09/26/11
Posts: 912
Loc: USA, FL
Originally Posted By: peroperic2009
Hey Phoenix,
first thyroid than other operations are options - just teasing with you smile !
I'm glad that you have decided to share your intimacy with us.
You have been very brave, you have my hat off because of all this!
Embrace who you are - that should be mantra for all of us.
I hope that someone else would show whit similar issues, it is terrible to be alone....
Here is huge hug for you my friend (((((Phoenix)))))

Pero
xoxo



Pero,

Hahaha! Good one. Had two co-workers who had SRS surgery, facial surgery, voice surgery, etc. The one constant in that is--you are who you think. The rest is just an affirmation. Truth is, as with anything, it's an attitude. Thanks, man.

Phoenix
xoxo
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Phoenix

A guy opens the front door and sees a snail on his doorstep. He picks up the snail and throws it across the street in a neighbor's yard. A year later, the guy opens the front door and the same snail is on his doorstep. The snail says, "What the f*ck was that about?"

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#393446 - 04/14/12 03:12 PM Re: Have to admit it [Re: Smalltown80sBoy]
phoenix321 Offline


Registered: 09/26/11
Posts: 912
Loc: USA, FL
Originally Posted By: Smalltown80sBoy
I'm not like you but wanted to congratulate you. "Embrace who you are" is great advice and the only way we can be truly happy, I think. smile


Thank you, 80sBoy! You have to be true to yourself or you won't heal. Makes sense to me. Thanks again! -Phoenix, xoxo
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Phoenix

A guy opens the front door and sees a snail on his doorstep. He picks up the snail and throws it across the street in a neighbor's yard. A year later, the guy opens the front door and the same snail is on his doorstep. The snail says, "What the f*ck was that about?"

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#430795 - 04/10/13 08:10 PM Re: Have to admit it [Re: phoenix321]
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Registered: 03/13/13
Posts: 22
Loc: Texas
Great words!
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If someone throws trash on my lawn and drives away, it is mine to deal with. I make the decision whether to collect it or take responsibility for cleaning it up. We are the sum of our choices. For some, these were thrust upon us at an age when we were not qualified to take such resposibility. R.J.

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