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#395330 - 04/28/12 06:50 PM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
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Registered: 02/16/11
Posts: 328
Loc: NYC
Thanks, Pero. The walk did a lot of good. Got some pizza (instead of a drink.) I'm ready to do some more writing. I appreciate your kind words. They mean a lot.

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#395332 - 04/28/12 07:01 PM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
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Loc: South-East Europe
That is great news Thebo, I'm glad that walk and pizza did so good to you smile!
I'm keeping fingers crossed for your homework and scholarship.
Keep us updated wink.
Pero
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#395368 - 04/28/12 10:40 PM * [Re: Thebo]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 05:36 PM)

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#395421 - 04/29/12 05:29 AM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
Thebo Offline
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Hmrph! Seriously, thank you.

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#395422 - 04/29/12 05:33 AM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
Thebo Offline
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I love you guys.

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#395710 - 05/01/12 12:00 PM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
Thebo Offline
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I'm doing a term paper for the Understanding and Treatment of Victims of Abuse. Since my teacher, in my humble opinion, is little behind on the issues of male survivor, and she loves case studies, I was wondering if anyone would be willing to give me permission to quote from your story or a post so I can better support my position on standing up to her misconceptions about male survivors--she leans heavily on that 85% of all perps imprisoned were victims, but she lacks emphasizing the much lower percentage which relates to the overall survivor population. She requires references so I would use the site and your screenname. I would not give her access (i.e., my password and screenname.) I would only use the material as a quote in the paper. She is the only one who would have access to it (the paper,) however I may show it to my T to discuss as part of my healing process.

All that said, if anyone would like to share in that capacity, let me know and tell me exactly what I can use to quote.

Here's the important stuff. Under no circumstances do I want anyone to feel compromised, threatened or unsafe. Believe me, I want everyone here to feel completely safe. Understood?

Thebo

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#395714 - 05/01/12 12:10 PM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
JustScott Offline
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Registered: 01/27/08
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Feel free to use any of my stuff. Not that my stuff would be very helpful, but if you find something in there, feel free!

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#395715 - 05/01/12 12:21 PM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Hi Thebo,
feel free to use any of my stuff if you'll find it interesting...
Pero
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#395718 - 05/01/12 12:39 PM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
Magellan Offline
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Registered: 12/31/10
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Loc: California
Thebo,

You can use anything you like of mine. Recovery is OURS, not mine.

We share our recovery together.

D
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Loving Kindness Meditation will dramatically improve your spirits; give it a try for just 3 days: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sz7cpV7ERsM

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#395736 - 05/01/12 02:37 PM Re: Moving ahead [Re: Thebo]
Anomalous Offline
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Registered: 03/07/10
Posts: 1340
Hi Thebo,

This is a post I wrote in direct response to your ...ahem, "teachers" irresponsible dissemination of incorrect information.

The title of the post is Information about the Abused Becoming Abusers.

Contained within that post is the citation for the original research study from which that erroneous and deleterious conclusion was drawn.

Additionally, there is a link to a paper which discusses the faulty research and where the research failed, step by step. It then tackles the "conclusion" of that research and it discusses the inappropriateness (poor research methods) of generalizing a conclusion from the target population to the non-target population.

Information debunking the original research starts on page 4 of the article.

The .pdf can be downloaded and printed if you wanted to share it with anyone.

HTH





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