Well to start with.
I was abused by men and woman, and I have not seen the link, but I can tell you that I am a Christian and did make the mistake of confusing God and church. I hate churches but I love God. I am also critical of Men.
In a study I am doing at the moment I find that about 42% of the pastors in churches are suffering from some form of sexual dysfunction.
So as much as I hate (harsh word) them I realize now that they are only human, and that they like us need a lot of help and counselling.
I too turned against God as I felt that he let things happen to me and that my childhood was wrecked, but hey, now I am working hard at helping others and I am quite blessed.
So, I am now a happy whole man that is blessing other men by helping them overcome addiction and CSA. What more could I ask for.
Heal well Brother
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