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#392596 - 04/07/12 03:54 AM .
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Registered: 08/25/11
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Loc: Bouvet Island
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Edited by Life's A Dream (01/12/13 11:09 PM)

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#392597 - 04/07/12 03:57 AM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: Life's A Dream]
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Registered: 02/07/06
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Loc: somewhere in Africa
yep - for stretches when i wasn't remembering anything. then other extreme like you said.
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#392599 - 04/07/12 04:50 AM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 03/14/12
Posts: 48
Loc: Ohio
I'm usually asexual averaging 10 year stretches (12 right now). But once in a while something gets into me and I'll go for anything with a pulse. I'm 49 now and over due for a couple trysts. From a sexual stand point my life is nothing but extremes. Sex really screws up my isolation factor.

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#392637 - 04/07/12 11:23 AM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: Life's A Dream]
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Registered: 05/07/11
Posts: 1736
Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
Hi LAD
I am still asexual, I reckon that all those bums that raped me stufed up my sex life forever.

I am no 48 and find that I have practically no desire, so if anyone can tell me how to become hyper sexual, Id be gratefull.

Heal well
Martin

BTW

Glad you stayed
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#392646 - 04/07/12 01:56 PM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: whome]
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Registered: 10/25/05
Posts: 112
Loc: Vestavia, Alabama, USA
I can't remember the last time I felt a real desire to have sex.
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#392647 - 04/07/12 02:01 PM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: Asmodeus]
whome Offline
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Registered: 05/07/11
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Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
Well no help for me,LOL I'm looking for advice not more sufferers. Hehehhe
ell my wife has lost a lot of weight, maybe itll work, wish me luck.
Now seriously, I truly wish that I can resolve this as it is the last major obstacle to my healing and being NORMAL, if there is such a thing.

Heal well Brothers

Martin
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#392651 - 04/07/12 03:03 PM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: Life's A Dream]
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Registered: 09/26/11
Posts: 912
Loc: USA, FL
Hypersexual. It's rare I ain't horny. Makes for mind-blowing orgasms, alone or otherwise. I've learned to not even touch. People that have trouble getting it up have mostly a mental problem. Oversexed would the the other thing. Normal with CSA just like asexual can be. Since you're hardwired for sex, asexual is the rarity. Used to have a huge group on sexual technique and different experiences. I've done maybe 75% of it. Just not into gay or bondage (or animals like farmer john's kids). Hahahaha!
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#392656 - 04/07/12 04:26 PM . [Re: phoenix321]
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Edited by Life's A Dream (01/12/13 11:07 PM)

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#393026 - 04/10/12 06:48 PM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: Asmodeus]
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Registered: 10/05/11
Posts: 180
hmm i think you know who to ask if you have an issue with sex or desire. im not sure what to say other than that.
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#393028 - 04/10/12 06:57 PM Re: Why do some become asexual vs. hypersexual after? [Re: Tyr]
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Registered: 02/16/07
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Loc: FEMA Region 1
Age 10-20yo: Hyper hyper hyper hyper nutso-hyper, off-the freakin-hook hyper!

Age 20-30yo: A

Age 30-46yo: A and Hetero

Age 46-now: A
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