Good places to go are places like Salvation Army Domestic Violence centers and other rape criss centers to see who they recommend. They usually know everybody because they refer rape victims. Some counselors there will talk to male survivors. Your insurance company will tell you they will pay. Out-of-network usually they don't cover. Some won't take insurance today.
Best advice I ever got was write a letter to the therapists you are considering telling them the issue (CSA, etc.) and ask if they have expertise in that area. No point in shelling out $200-300 (or an insurance visit--there's usually a maximum number of visits to shrinks) for a initial consultation if they have no expertise. I found that out after a blew lots of money and they didn't have any expertise. It's how other people with all kinds of issues did I discovered. I was way naive for my own good. Fellow patients got responses and that's who they went to. If I ever go to another shrink, that will be my method to sniff out a good one. If they don't respond, I won't see them.
The MS articles are good too.
Best of luck.
A guy opens the front door and sees a snail on his doorstep. He picks up the snail and throws it across the street in a neighbor's yard. A year later, the guy opens the front door and the same snail is on his doorstep. The snail says, "What the f*ck was that about?"