Much good luck in your search Ken.
You are courageous. Never give up.
I have heard nothing but good about ISA and SIA. They are a 12 step program, so i think that will give anyone a good foundation for life. Half measures avail us nothing, so, go for it man.
If you cannot control what happens to you, you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.
~ adapted from: Sri Ram