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#391273 - 03/29/12 12:34 AM Starting a group
FFSC Offline


Registered: 06/13/11
Posts: 8
Hello,

This past summer I started confronting my abuse that happend over a 4 year period in the mid 1980's at a camp in North Carolina. I have a great support base here with friends, family, and a great shrink. I want to however start an adult men's support group and or non-profit where I live to give people the support and location to feel safe to talk about what happened to them. I just feel that so many adults do not have a place to go when they realize this in their 20's, 30's, 40's and beyond. Any thoughts or ideas on how to get this statred? Thank you.

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#391275 - 03/29/12 12:51 AM Re: Starting a group [Re: FFSC]
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Hi FFSC.

Many folks place an ad in the Classifieds section of the website when they plan to start support group in their area. If you are comfortable disclosing your general location, this could be an option to consider.

Andy
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#391276 - 03/29/12 12:53 AM Re: Starting a group [Re: FFSC]
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Registered: 09/26/11
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Loc: USA, FL


You might want to just follow the NA/AA type model for a support group for "rules" on group discussion. You also might have to look at 1. where to have it 2. how much it'll cost (buying/renting/borrowing a meeting space, handouts) 3. how often (weekly, bi-weekly) 4. Who is allowed (sometimes pedos might try to infilitrate to get their jollies off or disrupt) 5. Advertising/promotion (newspaper, news tv--if suport group they'd probably list it daily/weekly for free like the do NA/AA) 6. non-profit set-up (small biz incubator, chamber of commerce, local AA/NA might help you, or you might need a lawyer) 7. Employees/volunteers for non-profit (what if you croak? 8. whatever other impediment/issue to it that could happen.

Non-profit set-ups can be a full-time job without any money coming in on top of it. Think a business without any products. A support group would be easier but might have upfront costs to promote, meeting place cost, etc. Good luck. Great idea.
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