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#389963 - 03/20/12 08:05 PM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: peroperic2009]
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I just want to hop-in and say "well done" to a great mom, Confusion4life!

Before I read your story, my knee-jerk reaction was "WOW...Italy!" Its my favorite place on Earth (not kidding).

Then I read your account of what happened, and I am even further impressed; WOW...a powerful Mom!!!

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#389971 - 03/20/12 08:43 PM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: confusion4life]
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Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
Originally Posted By: confusion4life
...but he has crossed the line - i cant handle him differently....


Manuela,

I believe what you wrote is very important. He did cross a line. As your daughters mother, you want to protect her and this is GREAT.

I remember some stuff that happened when I was 3 almost 4. Like Ken stated memories at that age are very limited and before that age the memory is NOT clear. My kids are adults now but, I remember them when they were little (before age 4) and they were so innocent and very fragile for lack of better word. I am touched by your son's memory of good things.

I have a female friend here locally, whose husband sexually abused their daughters. I am thrilled to know her. She is very loving and protected of her kids like you.

Be well,
Avery

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#389980 - 03/20/12 10:54 PM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: Avery46]
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Loc: California USA
Manuela,

Thanks for giving me the chance to help you and your family. I know we face a long road ahead but I feel that we can help you daughter experience the wonderful life that she deserves. Look forward to talking to you on Thursday Mike


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#390031 - 03/21/12 10:59 AM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: confusion4life]
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Registered: 09/26/11
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Loc: USA, FL
I'm very sorry that happened to your daughter. Makes me angry really. frown The brain isn't fully developed until 6 months old at least. Everything is new to a baby so after the brain is developed, there really is no reason why it's not possible. I've read a baby does orgasm not long after being born. No offense, but, I think he's full shit, and since he abused your daughter, hope he goes to hell, er, jail. Get far, far away. If there's a great reason for divorce, this is one. Once a pedophile, always a pedophile. Pedos are master manipulators. If any pedo says they are "cured," they are full of shit and so is their shrink (pedo apologists are what they are even if they don't believe it). There's no evidence I've ever read that says a pedo can be "cured" even with meds and castration. I mean no offense to you, but I have no use for pedos.

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#390214 - 03/22/12 11:57 AM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: phoenix321]
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Manuela:

You are a terrific mom and a fantastic human being.

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#390478 - 03/24/12 04:10 AM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: peroperic2009]
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Registered: 02/12/12
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Loc: Italy

thanks for thinking about us!
manuela
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#390479 - 03/24/12 04:13 AM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: Jim1104]
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Registered: 02/12/12
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Loc: Italy
thanks a lot jim smile
i still think i still have lots to learn and i will - and you guys are just the best teachers.

manuela

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#390480 - 03/24/12 04:25 AM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: phoenix321]
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Registered: 02/12/12
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Loc: Italy
thank you all
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#390482 - 03/24/12 04:29 AM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: Avery46]
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Registered: 02/12/12
Posts: 109
Loc: Italy
thank you for your answer avery!

it helps me understanding better and thanks a lot for the compliments you made me, but i really think the least i can do now is to help her becoming ok from the shit which has been put into this innocent and trusting child of mine.

manuela

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#390483 - 03/24/12 04:31 AM Re: can he remember from baby times? may trigger!!!!!! [Re: Still]
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Registered: 02/12/12
Posts: 109
Loc: Italy
thanks a lot robbie smile
feels good to get compliments! thanks a lot!

manuela

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