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#389293 - 03/14/12 06:15 PM Re: Enough Damage Already [Re: 1lifenow]
F.A. Offline


Registered: 09/02/11
Posts: 229
Loc: United States
Thank you this is a great view point that I truly needed at this time. I would love to add it to my CSA blog and facebook with your permission of course minus the F world :-)

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F.A.

To be sick is to be fragmented. To be healed is to become whole, and to become whole one must be in harmony with family, friends, and nature" -Navajo-
Blog: http://csafresno.blogspot.com
Facebook: http://tinyurl.com/CSAFresno
My Story: http://tinyurl.com/78upvvu

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#389316 - 03/14/12 10:51 PM Re: Enough Damage Already [Re: F.A.]
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Registered: 03/07/11
Posts: 391
Loc: west coast
please be my guest but i like the infrequent but effective use of expletives for emphasis. Feel free.

I have never understood why people edit themselves, unless they really dont talk that way.lol

Cheers

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WoR Barrie 2011

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#389336 - 03/15/12 02:01 AM Re: Enough Damage Already [Re: 1lifenow]
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Registered: 02/08/12
Posts: 141
Loc: Uranus (hell no not yours. lol...
I love this post brother. Awesome attitude check for us all. wink

It is so easy to get caught in the "damaged goods" mentality. For most of us it was beat into us either physcially, sexually and/or verbally. Even more unfortunate is that for too many of us it was all 3.

Thanks again brother.

Alex


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#389374 - 03/15/12 01:54 PM Re: Enough Damage Already [Re: 1lifenow]
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Loc: United States
Originally Posted By: 1lifenow
please be my guest but i like the infrequent but effective use of expletives for emphasis. Feel free.

I have never understood why people edit themselves, unless they really dont talk that way.lol

Cheers
Thank you for the permission. I try not to use to many negative words as my ex did and it tore me down but I will use them when needed they do release emotion in a great way.

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F.A.

To be sick is to be fragmented. To be healed is to become whole, and to become whole one must be in harmony with family, friends, and nature" -Navajo-
Blog: http://csafresno.blogspot.com
Facebook: http://tinyurl.com/CSAFresno
My Story: http://tinyurl.com/78upvvu

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#389441 - 03/16/12 01:05 AM Re: Enough Damage Already [Re: 1lifenow]
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Registered: 02/12/12
Posts: 15
Loc: PA
I am amazed with the intuition, compassion and heartfelt comments of my fellow survivors.

I do know that there is a road from Survivor to Thriver.
As a victim of mother son incest and torture, I survived.
Now, at 57 and 25+ years of therapy, I am living a dream! my children like me as my grandchildren do as well. I have been married 33 years and happy.I have never repeated the behavior I endured.
There hope..just never giveup!!!
Good thoughts and feelings to all.
Mike


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#389444 - 03/16/12 02:07 AM Re: Enough Damage Already [Re: Mikey7752]
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Registered: 02/08/12
Posts: 141
Loc: Uranus (hell no not yours. lol...
Originally Posted By: Mikey7752
I am amazed with the intuition, compassion and heartfelt comments of my fellow survivors.

I do know that there is a road from Survivor to Thriver.
As a victim of mother son incest and torture, I survived.
Now, at 57 and 25+ years of therapy, I am living a dream! my children like me as my grandchildren do as well. I have been married 33 years and happy.I have never repeated the behavior I endured.
There hope..just never giveup!!!
Good thoughts and feelings to all.
Mike


Wow Mike. That is true inspiration brother and am so happy that you have healed on so many levels. It certainly adds to my hopes.

Alex


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