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#388659 - 03/07/12 09:09 PM Chivalry ain't dead yet
Still Online   sad

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 6802
Loc: FEMA Region 1

I want to share a WOW with you regarding a kid in my town.

Super-Boy is in the 7th grade. He's "known" throughout and by all. He's a top student but also a fun-loving nut-case who just turned 13. He's friends will ALL.

His circle of friends is broad and varied. He greatly hangs with the Skater-crowd and they are nearly always together.

On Sunday, one of his gang (Sht-boy) was PMing with one of the girls (Girl) in the 7th grade. She likes him, he likes her. She told him she likes him. So he said: "Yeah? you willing to send me some nude pics of you?" Now, Girl is a super sweet and truly good girl (not that it matters). She messaged back "I can't believe you just said that." Sht-boy said "What? What's the problem?"

She logged off. He panicked and began telling his friends about it and asking if he was in trouble. They all called him a scum-bag. When Super-Boy learned of it, he said and did nothing (as in did not say a word to anyone).

Super-Boy let two days go buy to see what was to happen with the incident. The entire 7th grade learned of it. All were agast at Sht-boy's behaviour and considered him scum. But Super-Boy was disgusted that no one was going to do jack about it. No one would report Sht-boy.

Super-Boy told Sht-boy that he ought to join him in the Principle's office willingly, or be called-in later. He took Sht-boy to the P's office to disclose this sexual harrasment crime. Sht-boy threatened to beat the crap out of Super-boy for turning him in. Super-Boy said "beating me up is the least of your worries" and went into the P's office for the full report.

I learned of this through the town pipeline.

I'm in awe.

Enablers crackle and smoke in Hell right along side the perps!

#388661 - 03/07/12 09:16 PM Re: Chivalry ain't dead yet [Re: Still]
peroperic2009 Offline

Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3655
Loc: South-East Europe
That Super-boy must be having super warm home with Super-parents.
My hat is off to all of them and especially to Super-boy.
There is hope left for this lost crazy world wink!!!


My story

#388663 - 03/07/12 09:26 PM Re: Chivalry ain't dead yet [Re: peroperic2009]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3673
Loc: somewhere in Africa
The world needs more llike Super-Boy!

"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself... And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity." - Paulo Coelho

#388665 - 03/07/12 10:07 PM Re: Chivalry ain't dead yet [Re: traveler]
Treehugger75 Offline

Registered: 02/08/12
Posts: 158
Loc: Ontario Canada
Indeed smile

I will never ALWAYS be right, I wasn't wrong, I am whats left.

#388704 - 03/08/12 04:04 AM Re: Chivalry ain't dead yet [Re: Treehugger75]
mike13 Offline

Registered: 02/02/11
Posts: 419
Loc: California USA
Maybe there is hope for the future after all smile

#388722 - 03/08/12 08:40 AM Re: Chivalry ain't dead yet [Re: mike13]
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Registered: 11/01/11
Posts: 386
Loc: USA

He is hope for our world!!!

Feeling Encouraged-


For I know the plans I have made for you. Plans to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11

#388766 - 03/08/12 05:56 PM Re: Chivalry ain't dead yet [Re: herowannabe]
Disappointed Offline

Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 540
Loc: U.S.A.
Coarse, uncivilized, but not a "crime."

But good job!

Good for the girl that stood up for herself, and didn't humor him just because she liked him!


#388777 - 03/08/12 08:30 PM Re: Chivalry ain't dead yet [Re: Disappointed]
LandOfShadow Offline

Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 684
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
That's the negative consequences. So, when does anyone show Sht-boy better ways to relate to girls than crudely sexualizing them? The positive example? Text a pix of roses, share a song he likes, learn to express himself to girls? I never got any help with that either. Most boys don't have fathers anymore now it seems.

Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer

And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you

Paul Eluard


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