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#388141 - 03/03/12 02:27 AM Re: Can you just have a bad year? [Re: herowannabe]
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
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laugh It went really well! - or at least the outcome was good - long and rocky road gettin there - but worth all the bumps. (Sorry to make this about me - or rather US - but maybe it can ALSO serve as an endorsement that the total openness and honesty thing really DOES work!) She said she sees this morning as a major pivotal point for us!!! That's a pretty good encouragement to keep on trying - now on to the next chapter...

Thanks, all!
Lee

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We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
there are many enemies, but we are never without a friend;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
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#388155 - 03/03/12 08:41 AM Re: Can you just have a bad year? [Re: traveler]
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Lee, I've yet to experience it but I believe with all my heart it is the only thing that can work. I'm so glad your outcome was good!

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#388177 - 03/03/12 02:10 PM Re: Can you just have a bad year? [Re: GoodHope]
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Wonderful for you Lee.

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#388180 - 03/03/12 03:05 PM Re: Can you just have a bad year? [Re: Jim1104]
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YES LEE!!! YES, now come over and talk to my husband for me will ya?


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#388219 - 03/04/12 04:16 AM Re: Can you just have a bad year? [Re: Esposa]
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not sure it would do any good, Esposa. some things you have to discover yourself. even with all the good discussion here, not sure i'd have gotten it even a few months ago.

Thanks for the encoragement, tho- and you too Jim and Good Hope

Weird thing tho - our perceptions are so different: she said it was like starting to turn an oceanliner - it will take a while to see the results... while i felt like i had just made an abrupt U-turn. a beginning for her, a HUGE reversal for me.

Maybe that is significant - and one of the problems in relationships - the difference in perceptions between partners on what is an insignificant thing and what is a BIG DEAL?

Lee

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We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
there are many enemies, but we are never without a friend;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
- Paul, II Cor 4:8-9

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#388312 - 03/05/12 12:19 AM Re: Can you just have a bad year? [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 11/01/11
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Hooooorahhhhhhh!!!

So, so happy everything went so well for you, Lee! smile

Sending hugs!
herowannabe

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For I know the plans I have made for you. Plans to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11


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#388327 - 03/05/12 04:40 AM Re: Can you just have a bad year? [Re: herowannabe]
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Registered: 11/04/10
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Nice work traveler. Glad to hear of your continuing success. Be well brother.

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