If you take the male attributes out of the victimization, and replaced them with female attributes, would the unsupportive people still be unsupportive given the same circumstances?

I think Prisoner's concept here has merit. Labels muddy the water a lot. If Perp A did such and such to Victim B, what would the outcome likely be?

Jim

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