not sure it would do any good, Esposa. some things you have to discover yourself. even with all the good discussion here, not sure i'd have gotten it even a few months ago.
Thanks for the encoragement, tho- and you too Jim and Good Hope
Weird thing tho - our perceptions are so different: she said it was like starting to turn an oceanliner - it will take a while to see the results... while i felt like i had just made an abrupt U-turn. a beginning for her, a HUGE reversal for me.
Maybe that is significant - and one of the problems in relationships - the difference in perceptions between partners on what is an insignificant thing and what is a BIG DEAL?
Lee
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They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me.
Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long.
But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked.
Psalm 129:2-4
It went really well! - or at least the outcome was good - long and rocky road gettin there - but worth all the bumps. (Sorry to make this about me - or rather US - but maybe it can ALSO serve as an endorsement that the total openness and honesty thing really DOES work!) She said she sees this morning as a major pivotal point for us!!! That's a pretty good encouragement to keep on trying - now on to the next chapter...
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