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#387598 - 02/28/12 08:29 AM Loss of a friendship
jj78 Offline
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Registered: 12/10/10
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Loc: Midwest
Feeling a bit down over the loss of a friendship. I've never really lost a friendship before so this is certainly a new feeling. What's troubling is that the repercussions of my CSA helped contribute to this occurrence. So here's a song for those who've had similar experiences.

Sarah McLachlan-I will remember you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W4HIGVDEOko


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#387665 - 02/28/12 06:44 PM Re: Loss of a friendship [Re: jj78]
westchesterguy Offline
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Registered: 11/13/09
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Loc: Westchester County NY
how can someone lose a friendship this way?

was s/he really a friend or a placeholder?

_________________________
Jeff

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#387705 - 02/28/12 11:11 PM Re: Loss of a friendship [Re: westchesterguy]
jj78 Offline
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Registered: 12/10/10
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No, he wwas definitely a friend. I just took our friendship for granted I believe and in the process broke his trust. I'm hoping someday he can forgive me.


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#387811 - 02/29/12 04:01 PM Re: Loss of a friendship [Re: jj78]
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Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
jj78,

I have lost significant people in my life so, I think I understand where you are coming from.

I am not sure if your saying the words to this song but, I am. One of the questions in the song "will you remember me", rings in my being sometimes.

Remember, to forgive yourself as well. Sometimes in life, others will forgive but, we will never know. It is important to have forgiveness for yourself.

Peace,
Avery

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aka DJsport

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