Sorry for the pain, and sorry for your son too.
You have already won most of the challenge. You believed him, you love him, he trusts you.
What can you do
Love him, believe him, trust him, hug him, love him, love him, love him. Become a little overprotective and ...... Love him.
I did not get the love I felt I needed at home so I went in search of attention and, well found the wrong type.
You also now need to be really open and honest about sex, when the questions come up. Don't force it down his throat, but rather when he enquires. Problem is that he has had sexual experience beyond his years so this will confuse him.
Watch him to ensure that he does not display prematurely advanced sexual behaviour. Watch that he does not rub himself excessively or himself on others excessively. And be loving and firm when you tell him that this is not how things are done.
And one more thing, hug him and love him.
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