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#383727 - 01/28/12 01:50 PM Re: Confrontation Letter to my perp *TRIGGER WARNING* [Re: mcl1982]
pbert53 Offline
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Registered: 10/26/09
Posts: 576
Loc: Washington, USA
Awesome Mark,

you hit it right on the nail head. nothing to change in my way of thinking.

it took a lot of courage to do that and i applaud you! smile

great attitude man. i am glad that you are trying to get past it. it is a painful road and a real roller coaster ride as you know, but well worth the efforts in the long run.

good chatting with you in the chat lounge. you are a good man and on the a good path. you can do it and we can help along the way. keep coming back bro.

take care

peace

paul

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If you cannot control what happens to you, you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

~ adapted from: Sri Ram

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#383813 - 01/29/12 10:54 PM Re: Confrontation Letter to my perp *TRIGGER WARNING* [Re: mcl1982]
WriterKeith Offline


Registered: 12/30/10
Posts: 694
Loc: southern California
mc, I am a professional writer. Looking over your letter I would not change a single key strike.

This is an important threshold you are crossing with a whole new level of existence waiting on the other side. Excellent job, man.

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Keith
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JfvAPZGjds

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#383844 - 01/30/12 09:53 AM Re: Confrontation Letter to my perp *TRIGGER WARNING* [Re: WriterKeith]
mcl1982 Offline


Registered: 01/09/12
Posts: 44
Loc: IL
Thank you WriterKeith. It was a big step toward my recovery and healing and it has helped big time with it.


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#384359 - 02/04/12 07:39 PM Re: Confrontation Letter to my perp *TRIGGER WARNING* [Re: mcl1982]
lars3229 Offline
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Registered: 12/03/08
Posts: 796
Loc: Iowa
Wow, very powerful. I wrote a letter to my abuser once as well, but never had the guts to send it. Great letter, very inspiring, perhaps it's time to send mine? smile

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You may trod me
in the very dirt
But still,
like dust,
I'll rise.

-Maya Angelou

"I quite often remember to forget these sorts of things."
-Winnie the Pooh, The Tigger Movie

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#384440 - 02/05/12 08:57 AM Re: Confrontation Letter to my perp *TRIGGER WARNING* [Re: lars3229]
mcl1982 Offline


Registered: 01/09/12
Posts: 44
Loc: IL
Thanks for the kind words. I don't have an answer for you to send yours. Only you know when that time will be right. I wish you luck though.


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#384497 - 02/05/12 08:25 PM Re: Confrontation Letter to my perp *TRIGGER WARNING* [Re: mcl1982]
Mountainous Buck Offline
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Registered: 12/15/09
Posts: 1556
Loc: Minnesota
Beautiful letter, brother.

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It matters where you go" Frank Turner

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#384538 - 02/06/12 12:13 AM Re: Confrontation Letter to my perp *TRIGGER WARNING* [Re: Mountainous Buck]
mcl1982 Offline


Registered: 01/09/12
Posts: 44
Loc: IL
Thanks MB.


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