If you are just starting to work through issues - then this is a good place to start. Like MCL said, there are alot of guys here who are floating in the same boat as you, so I hope that you find all the support and understanding that you need, I know I did. You didn't deserve whatever it is that brings you here and I am sorry that it has to be a part of your history, but good things are to come for you!
All the Best,
"Place your past into a book
Put in everything you ever took
Place your past into a book
Burn the pages let them cook"