....But if you are truly aroused by an especially good looking man, then its about the attraction and the identity that is part of you....
i don't believe men, in this culture, understand what could trip an arousal by a good looking guy. the pressure is too great to ignore it - for ignoring or fighting "is cool," it is manly, strength, right, so says our societal norms.
what is the game of "gay chicken" all about...? the new popular fad with younger guys...who not only play but film it and post online for all to see. they can make out, get erect, and turn it all off with a simple laugh...'cause they aren't actually gay.
but what are they? if one doesn't agree to play he is "gay" and uncool.
are they just guys... who realize that men can indeed be turned on by any another living soul no matter which gender? or is it the middle finger to this whole society that oppresses male sexuality on purpose? or is it even more sinister... a way to control a guy who is gay or learn who was abused and who wasn't so they can avoid them in the future?