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#376497 - 11/22/11 04:21 PM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: ANDREW63]
JaapVisser Offline
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Registered: 08/31/11
Posts: 57
Loc: The Netherlands
I didn't see this post before or maybe didn't want to see it. I am crying like a madmen now, but thank you so so much for posting this.

I am suffering bleeding and pain there every time I go to the toilet for so long now and I am so freaking scared to go the doctor, but your post gives me hope, so much hope and inspiration to make this step.

Thank you for being so brave and sharing it.

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#376761 - 11/25/11 09:08 AM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: JaapVisser]
mike13 Offline
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Registered: 02/02/11
Posts: 419
Loc: California USA
Good Luck on the Doctor


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#379315 - 12/13/11 05:13 PM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: ANDREW63]
Incognito Offline


Registered: 04/17/11
Posts: 105
Congratulations! You broke a huge barrier. Be very proud of yourself.

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#383548 - 01/26/12 03:38 PM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: ANDREW63]
Daniel_forgotten Offline


Registered: 02/07/09
Posts: 479
congrats logan. I know this is an old post but still, i wanna tell you i feel proud of you too laugh

i had a similar problem. in my case it was because of abuse. like your friend, a portion of it had to be removed. but i dissociated for weeks. i was admitted in the psychiatric ward after the surgery.

you are brave dude.


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#383557 - 01/26/12 04:25 PM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: Daniel_forgotten]
pufferfish Offline
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Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6857
Loc: USA
Probably a lot of survivor guys have this kind of problem. Usually bleeding is from hemorrhoids which can swell and exude a little blood.

http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/hemorrhoids-topic-overview

Most survivors have IBS (Irritable bowel syndrome) which means that the colon gets irritated by a combination of emotional stress and irritating foods.

The conditions of IBS and hemorrhoids are often related.

Part of the answer is to start making a list of which foods you have eaten and cause the irritation. Often they will be spicy foods with a lot of hot pepper sauce. Caffein will also increase the problem.

http://www.webmd.com/ibs/default.htm

sometimes the physical trauma of being abused anally will cause actual physical damage to the rectum. If the wall of the rectum is torn or broken, it usually must be corrected surgically. It won't heal by itself if it is torn all the way through. If the wall is damaged but not torn then it can cause pain and bowel dysfunction for years.

Puffer


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#393565 - 04/15/12 06:16 PM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: Logan]
Logan Offline
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Registered: 04/05/03
Posts: 1205
Loc: NY
I just want to say THANK YOU ALL SO VERY MUCH!!!!!

By re-reading the posts and threads they help me when I am feeling extremely NOT-Brave, and scared, with panic attacks occurring daily and nightmares at night.

I have been going through my own mini hell as of lately and it helps so, so, so much to read that just a short yr ago, I was this brave and all of you guys supported me!

Thanks again for your all of your reply's.

I am teary-eyed because of it.

Lots of love to all of you,

Logan
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"Quite a thing to live in fear, this is what is means to be a slave"
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#393580 - 04/15/12 10:36 PM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: Logan]
Geeders Offline
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Registered: 09/03/08
Posts: 1901
Loc: Peterborough, Ontario, Canada
Nice to see you again Logan. I've been absent on and off for a long time myself due to a variety of issues. See you in November maybe?

Jim
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#393670 - 04/16/12 06:59 PM Re: Rectal bleeding *may Trigger* [Re: Logan]
Logan Offline
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Registered: 04/05/03
Posts: 1205
Loc: NY
Yes, Jim, I really hope that I can make it and be there.

It would be nice to see you again.

I hope that your issues are not that serious and no matter what that you are moving in a good direction and feeling good!

PM me if you wanna talk further,
Logan
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WOR Alumnus Hope Springs 2009
"Quite a thing to live in fear, this is what is means to be a slave"
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