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#383269 - 01/23/12 06:02 PM Re: Is it Stockholm Syndrome? [Re: peroperic2009]
traveler Registered: 02/07/06 Posts: 2442 Loc: overseas	Very interesting... seems to fit on many points... I'll try to read more on the topic. Thanks, Lee _________________________ They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me. Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long. But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked. Psalm 129:2-4
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#383274 - 01/23/12 06:49 PM Re: Is it Stockholm Syndrome? [Re: peroperic2009]
Still Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 02/16/07 Posts: 5974 Loc: A NATO Nation	Sorry Traveler. I did not mean that post to undermine your benefit of the syndrome ID. I was merely commenting that set labels only work to frustrate me. i meant no harm by it.
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#383277 - 01/23/12 07:39 PM Re: Is it Stockholm Syndrome? [Re: Still]
traveler Registered: 02/07/06 Posts: 2442 Loc: overseas	Thanks, Robbie! That means a lot. No offense taken. I also resist and resent many of the "signs" I've been forced to wear. Sometimes by trying one on, I find out what does and does not fit. Regards, Lee _________________________ They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me. Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long. But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked. Psalm 129:2-4
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#383318 - 01/23/12 10:44 PM Re: Is it Stockholm Syndrome? [Re: traveler]
Avery46 Registered: 09/23/10 Posts: 1243 Loc: USA	Originally Posted By: traveler ...Avery - any keys to stopping the comparisons? I have a lifetime's practice in NOT seeing myself as acceptable - much less as seeing myself as ideal. Somehow repeating mantras and affirmations has never worked for me cuz i have a hard time believing anybody - even myself on a conscious level - tho I guess I believe lots of garbage I tell myself under the radar.... traveler, You are doing the "work" needed to understand yourself. I see getting to more and more "serenity" a journey. It will take time. Also, I use meditation and self guided imagery along with self reflection. Can you write out positive affirmation? Avery _________________________ aka DJsport
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#383322 - 01/23/12 11:09 PM Re: Is it Stockholm Syndrome? [Re: peroperic2009]
1islandboy Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 06/23/08 Posts: 848 Loc: washington	You know i am not one to often disagree...but Stockholm Syndrome is not exclusively between hostages and kidnappers...Shirley Julich for example has interesting qualitative research...(though I am struggling to find it, at this exact moment)... and in that same fashion...I believe "The Betrayal Bond" to be the same exact flower by another name... Every Rose has it's Thorn (Poison) island _________________________ Rise above the storm and you will find the sunshine ~ M.F. Fernandez
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#383346 - 01/24/12 10:46 AM Re: Is it Stockholm Syndrome? [Re: 1islandboy]
peroperic2009 Moderator MaleSurvivor Registered: 10/09/11 Posts: 2469 Loc: South-East Europe	Hay everybody, maybe I've coshed wrong word: exclusive. I wonted to say that I've herd and learned about Stockholm Syndrome by many sources related mostly and only to kidnapping and hostages. Nevertheless, as I've proceeded last night with book "The Betrayal Bond" I've found part where author describes how experts are using phrase "Stockholm Syndrome" for traumatic bonding. So Island you were completely right . And Traveler It seems to me that you should explore further this subject to find some answers. This author says that this kind of bonding could happen to everyone, it is not needed huge time to make such bond (there are examples with very short time: couple of days or one week of traumatic environment was enough for traumatic bonding). And this kind of bond lasted for very long time. In some cases bond lasted "forever". So in a way this sounds to me like paradox. If I'll find something interesting I'll write it... Let us all become masters of breaking those bonds ! _________________________ My story
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#391513 - 03/30/12 09:35 AM Re: Is it Stockholm Syndrome? [Re: traveler]
lapchinj Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 06/06/11 Posts: 904 Loc: New York	Peace,Rainbows & Healing Edited by lapchinj (03/16/13 04:16 PM) _________________________ Peace is Friendship & Being Healthy Peace is like the Fresh Yellow Sun Peace Sounds Like Dogs Howling Peace Tastes Like Candy (By Devin Lee Parsons 4/17/99-6/3/2011 R.I.P.) Stick around....it does get better
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#391734 - 04/01/12 01:03 AM * [Re: peroperic2009]
Smalltown80sBoy Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 03/25/12 Posts: 1508	* Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 03:58 PM)
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