I don't know if he's gay or not, but my gaydar does go off on him.
My T said its not unusual for guys in recovery, whatever it is to bond based on that shared experience. There can almost be an understood language. I see it across the room when i say something sometimes and i sure as hell feel it when others say something in their experience i thought what my fucked upness was. He just cautioned that this closeness of history can be confused as real intimacy, when it really is not. He said I will be like an 18year old even tho i really am way freakin older.
I guess i get that. But what I dont get is your gaydar going off on him. I feel lost cuz i really dont seem to have this sense at all. Oh sure, someone like kurt from glee or adam lambert, even the new spock. But for someone like don lemon or men i meet. I just could not tell you. Is this cuz I am new to this world or cuz i repressed everything so much from the csa. I guess i missed the "secret' handshake part. Oh ya michelle bachman's husband too, no gaydar needed there,lol.