Reading helps me tremendously.
Here is a snapshot of my little library. I put an asterisk by the ones I recommend.
Male CSA Specific
SAM Sexual Abuse of Males by Josef Spiegel*
Evicting the Perpetrator by Ken Singer*
For wives and partners of male CSA
Allies in Healing, Laura Davis
When a man you love was abused by Cecil Murphey
(I have no asterisks by these because they didn't help me because they didn't address how I was to help while dealing with my own pain of betrayal--probably great books if your husband/partners doesn't act out with other people).
In the Shadow of the Net, Patrick Carnes*
After the Affair by Janis Spring*
Healing Your Marriage When Trust is Broken,Cindy Beall* (Christian)
Sacred Marriage (Christian)
Unfaithful by Shriver (Christian)
Marriage Undercover by Bob and Audrey Meisner (Christian)
Edited by GoodHope (01/14/12 10:04 PM)
Wife of a survivor