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#382945 - 01/20/12 01:43 PM Re: How do we support the wives [Re: sugarbaby]
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Registered: 05/07/11
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Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
HI Marie

You are the most amazing person, your story shocked me, and I've heard a bit over the years counselling AA and NA. I am amazed at your strength, looking out for your brother, and yourself. You are an amazing person, and I think that you should investigate a new career, "Motivational speaker".

Keep it up girl, you are my MS F&F hero.

Sugarbaby, thanks for your post, and may I venture to advise that you find a group like Al-Anon or I think it is CODA in the States. YOU need support, before you burn out.
PM me any time Ladies, I will gladly share my story and my wifes courage through my healing

Heal well All
Martin

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#382951 - 01/20/12 01:56 PM Re: How do we support the wives [Re: whome]
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Registered: 08/17/08
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How am I co-dependant because my H was abused as a child? That doesn't make any sense to me.


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#382957 - 01/20/12 02:54 PM Re: How do we support the wives [Re: sugarbaby]
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Hi SB

I meant more that you get support for yourself, it is difficult to go through this alone. I don't know you to well, but CD is a common trait as most survivors do try to control their environments.
Sorry if I'm of the mark. honestly didn't mean to offend.
But I do still appreciate the reply to my post, all info helps me to help others here at the bottom of the world

Martin

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