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#380875 - 12/27/11 10:53 PM Re: Survivors: Inner Child Question [Re: mmfan]
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Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 540
Loc: U.S.A.
Originally Posted By: mmfan
[W]hen he is in 4-year-old boy mode, he is very very sensitive to my tone of voice and does best when I keep my voice quiet, calm and gentle.


MMfan, I agree, my tone of voice is very important. For the youngest alter, whom I guess to be 5 or 6, occasionally he can't switch from that alter if I don't control my voice.

Thanks for this input because it lets me know my experience is not unique.
D.

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#380879 - 12/28/11 12:08 AM Re: Survivors: Inner Child Question [Re: Disappointed]
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Registered: 02/26/08
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There is a book: The Peter Pan Syndrome. I've never read it but I perused it quickly in a local store.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0380688905/

It's talking about men who never grow up. I need to look at it again to see if it's relevant to this discussion.

There's a lot of discussion in MS about 'inner child' stuff. I'm still not sure if that's the same as a dissociated inner child.

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#380895 - 12/28/11 08:41 AM Re: Survivors: Inner Child Question [Re: pufferfish]
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I also question if "inner child" is the same as dissociated.

Thanks Puffer,
D.

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