This board is irreplaceable. We, as supporters, come here to vent, to commiserate, to do pulse checks on each other - and most of all to interact with survivors who can tell us how things are.
But maybe we need an "SCS" outlet? A place to celebrate the successes of the men that we love and support. Not only does it help us to focus on the positive during trying times, but it also can provide some insight for survivors into how important the little victories are for the people who love them.
Here's a go....
My husband, for the first time last night, talked to me calmly about his state of mind when he started the affair that he had. In only 3 sentences, he was able to put many of my fears to rest and give me hope in our future.