Horns, pandy's is nice, but I found that sometimes the women tend to get a little sick group-wise. Personalities and what not. it's like any other group; dominant personalities, occasional hypersensitivity, denial, then confrontation, then argument and then resolution, all within that group. It's really uncomfortable, but their mods are good about not letting things get too mean.
The best for me has been real-life recovery groups, and again, there's little anywhere for dual survivors/supporters, especially for those of us who live on both sides of this. I'm still looking and will ask my T tomorrow if she can help find some resources/forums. What exactly is the name, any way, of folks like us who are survivors married to other survivors? The dynamics are unique, and it's difficult to separate issues sometimes. What's mine? What's his? how do we trigger each other? Food for thought there. Do the boundaries we keep need to be the same as a standard survivor/spouse relationship? I wish psychologists would address that, too.
Edited by Airmid (12/04/11 11:43 AM)