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#377720 - 12/02/11 12:25 PM Re: Feel Like Throwing in The Towel--Too Much Pain [Re: KMCINVA]
mike13 Offline
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Registered: 02/02/11
Posts: 419
Loc: California USA
KMCINVA When you can't sleep at night come to chat we have a great group of guys that would love to support you. Remember you are no longer alone. Mike


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#377749 - 12/02/11 02:54 PM Re: Feel Like Throwing in The Towel--Too Much Pain [Re: KMCINVA]
Fissy Tsickens Offline
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Registered: 09/23/08
Posts: 466
Loc: Bassett, Virginia
(((KMC)))

Hang in there, bud. If there is any way at all you could get a respit from your family, it would probably be very beneficial. I wish you the best.

Peace,

John

_________________________
Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
About a home Iíll never see

It may sound absurd...but donít be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed...but wonít you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream
Itís not easy to be me

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#377778 - 12/02/11 07:17 PM Re: Feel Like Throwing in The Towel--Too Much Pain [Re: Fissy Tsickens]
KMCINVA Offline
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Registered: 08/31/11
Posts: 1745
I am trying--the support here and private messages have been so helpful. I just go into these spirals and I am hurt, and feel those near me do not see the hurt and harm. I will keep going. When I am at rock bottom or in total despair I will let you know. Thank you


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#377822 - 12/02/11 11:15 PM Re: Feel Like Throwing in The Towel--Too Much Pain [Re: KMCINVA]
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Registered: 04/17/11
Posts: 105
Those downward spirals are brutal but even in the darkest moments, just tell yourself that you will come out of it and be able to inch forward. Sometimes it feels like two steps forward, one step back, but each step forward is a step towards getting past all this. Good luck.

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"If you're willing to carry the weight, feel the strain, push past the pain, and give more of yourself than others expect of you, the world is yours." - Dave Tate

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#379681 - 12/16/11 02:49 AM Re: Feel Like Throwing in The Towel--Too Much Pain [Re: KMCINVA]
Tyler845 Offline


Registered: 11/04/10
Posts: 276
Loc: U.S.A.
Hey KMCINVA,'

I truly hope youre doing well. I'm having a bit of a similiar situation play out in my own life by way of the flashbacks, n the sleeplessness. I've been in therapy for a little bit, am going to my 5th meeting soon, and have yet to spend time on some of the more recent memories. I'm encouraged as are you by all our brothers here to keep moving. To be easy on ourselves. Personally I feel the anxiety in most situations, and at times just dont have the energy to keep feeling. It is a process, and a painstaking one at that. I believe you , I , and everyone else here concerned with healing deserve nothing less than perfect reconciliation and peace with our collective pains. I hope your wellness finds you easier today than it has in the recent past, and you keep moving toward the very possible goal of happiness and feeling your self-worth. Keep up the good work bro"

Jimmy

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Most Often, The Child Inside Has Better Access To Execute The Flawless Potential Of Self.

Over-Ride Emotional Conflict With Rational Truths

You Are Freer Than You Think - Paul Berteaux

Come unto Me, all ye that Labor, and are Heavy-ladened. I will give you Rest -Jesus Christ

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