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#376956 - 11/27/11 02:14 AM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Still]
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you're not alone robbie...

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#376990 - 11/27/11 02:15 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Obi]
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Registered: 09/17/11
Posts: 239
You are not alone. You have your children and they need and love you. You get to create for them a life you didn't have. Coming from a dysfunctional family, it's my greatest challenge. You can create loving empathic siblings. Teach to them to support and love one another;)


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#377060 - 11/27/11 09:19 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Gretta]
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 307
Loc: Newfoundland & Labrador
Hi Robbie,

Very sorry to hear of the bad holliday you had but it shows your values better than anything else can. You put your kids and wife first and the kids enjoyed seeing their mother. Your kids may learn bad from your family but they are learning good from you - good will always win over bad.

Unfortunately, many show their ignorance by not willing to listen or learn. It's those who refuse to learn are showing their true colours.

You have nothing to worry about. You are doing exactly what's expected of anybody, abused or not. You deserve a "WELL DONE" for the way you handled this situation.

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#377063 - 11/27/11 09:30 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Still]
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Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
Originally Posted By: Robbie Brown
...My ex too was to be alone for the day. So the kids and I (cuz I had court dictated visitation) went to her with Thanksgiving dinner....


Robbie,

I am glad you had Thanksgiving with your kids along with their mother. It will be forever "known" to your kids how you were there for them and their mother during Thanksgiving. It is hard to be "rejected". I experienced the rejection as well. You are NOT alone in spirit. I thought of you on Thanksgiving.

Kindly,
Avery

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#377076 - 11/27/11 11:40 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Still]
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Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6817
Loc: USA
Robbie,

I think you are one of the most gifted communicators around. You use different media to get your ideas across.

Sometimes we (survivors) have to find new friends and forget some of the wretched ones.

Puffer


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#377174 - 11/28/11 06:08 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: pufferfish]
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Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 540
Loc: U.S.A.
Dear Robbie,

As I remember, this father of yours was physically abusive. Not to mention, refused to go to baseball games with you.



Your Dad doesn't deserve your presence. Nor to see his grandchildren.

And that's all there is to it.

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#377176 - 11/28/11 06:13 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Disappointed]
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Registered: 02/16/07
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D,

You remember one very very sore point. How I LOVED the Red Sox. I grew-up only 30 minutes from Fenway. I SO wanted to go to games from age 6 - on. He would never ever take me. I would not go with others down the road in my teens because I felt it would be a betrayal to go without him. When I emerged in the business world and made enough money for ANYTHING I wanted, I thought I finally had the problem fixed. I figured he never wanted to spend any of his ample dollars on the Sox. So, I would buy us the best tickets possible, do the driving, buy the dinner, etc.

Nope!

FK! Still hurts like hell.

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#377196 - 11/28/11 08:23 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Still]
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Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 540
Loc: U.S.A.
That's my point, Robbie. The cad doesn't deserve the title "Dad."

You were born to the wrong Dad. You deserved a worthy one, not this worthless piece of crap who doesn't know what decency means.

Figure it out, Robbie. He's unworthy of you and this has been true your entire life; he's unworthy of a single moment of your time or thought.

I'm glad for your boys they didn't see him on Thanksgiving. He's a rotten example. Absolutely rotten. Fortunately, you escaped his bad character traits!

D.

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#377197 - 11/28/11 08:27 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Disappointed]
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Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 540
Loc: U.S.A.

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#377198 - 11/28/11 08:28 PM Re: Wow! Its not my imagination [Re: Disappointed]
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Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 540
Loc: U.S.A.
You deserved a Dad as good a Dad as you are!!!

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