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#375917 - 11/18/11 12:55 PM Trying to unfuck it up
blindpet Offline


Registered: 11/12/11
Posts: 57
Loc: DK and UK, Europe
I am a recovery noob, I'm 28 and trying to balance university and recovery. I wanted to say hi to everyone and applaud you all for being here and creating this awesome support network which I plan to use plenty.

I went to my first workshop for male survivors by the infamous Mike Lew and it was life changing. I've had many ups and downs since then and right now I'm up so I thought I'd introduce myself.

I look forward to getting to know you all smile.

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I didn't fuck it up, but I will unfuck it up. All MS members: Let's all unfuck it up!
It does get better because I will make it better, together we can make it better.

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#375931 - 11/18/11 04:35 PM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: blindpet]
EGL Offline
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Registered: 06/19/04
Posts: 7821
Hi, bp, and welcome to MS! I'm glad you've found this resource, he has helped so many and I'm sure it can help you as well. That's great that you went to the Mike Lew workshop, I would imagine that was a pretty powerful experience in itself. I've read his book, Victims No Longer, and it was excellent in helping my recovery. Again, glad you're here!

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Eddie

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#375936 - 11/18/11 04:53 PM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: EGL]
1.healing Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 09/10/10
Posts: 261
Loc: NW Ohio

Dear BlindPet,

Thanks for your introduction and for encouraging us on our healing journeys. You'll find support and encouragement for your own recovery path here. I'm sure you have a very busy schedule, but if possible also work with a therapist versed in our issues. They really help cut through a lot of the unnecessary and keep you focused towards a speedier recovery. Best of luck with everything, welcome! and if there's ever anything I can help with, please, don't hesitate.

Gary - 1.healing

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"It's never too late to be what you might have been."

George Elliot

"You cannot find peace by avoiding life."

Virginia Woolf

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#376057 - 11/19/11 01:48 PM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: 1.healing]
petercorbett Offline
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Registered: 07/27/08
Posts: 2433
Loc: TEXAS
My fraternal brother,

Welcome to MS. here you will receive compassion, understanding, love & hope, from your brothers (fraternal) & friends (in pain).

We all have been there. We have been into the depths of our soul & hell too.

We will hear your cries. We will help in your fears & share in your tears.

Be prepared for the emotional roller coaster ride of your life.

Heal well my fraternal brother, BlindPet, heal well. You are on your way.

"I will take that lost boys hand, and I will lead him from the depths of darkness, into the sunshine, forever into eternity." As he is me.

Pete..Irishmoose.

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Working Boys' Home 10-14 yrs old, grades 5-8. 1949-1953
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A very humble alumni of the WOR Dahlonega, GA.
May 15-17 2009, Alta, Sep. 2009. Sequoia, 2010.
Hope Springs, 2010.


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#376060 - 11/19/11 03:02 PM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: petercorbett]
JaapVisser Offline
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Registered: 08/31/11
Posts: 57
Loc: The Netherlands
Hello Blindpet,

A big hi back and and an applause for you for coming here, be able to maintain your study and visiting the mike lew workshop. I only read his books, but I can imagine it must have been quite something to visit and participate in it.

Good luck in finding what you need here and best wishes with your recovery.

Jaap

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#376125 - 11/19/11 11:03 PM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: JaapVisser]
ANDREW63 Offline


Registered: 08/27/11
Posts: 164
Loc: Australia
Hi Blindpet,WELCOME and GOOD LUCK with your recovery .Andrew.

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LOOK AT ME NOW I AM A SURVIVOR !My inner child and I are now doing this together !

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#376537 - 11/22/11 10:19 PM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: blindpet]
pbert53 Offline
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Registered: 10/26/09
Posts: 576
Loc: Washington, USA
Welcome Blindpet,

You have come to the right place for help and understanding.

We care about each other and want you to thrive as well.

Get acquainted, look around, come and chat, and feel welcome.

peace

paul

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If you cannot control what happens to you, you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

~ adapted from: Sri Ram

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#376567 - 11/23/11 09:58 AM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: pbert53]
Castle Offline


Registered: 10/03/09
Posts: 727
Loc: NJ
Keep telling yourself you didn't fuck it up.

I know you have something inside so strong.

Keep at it.

Best,
H

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#377961 - 12/03/11 02:58 PM Re: Trying to unfuck it up [Re: blindpet]
READY TO RECOVER Offline


Registered: 10/23/11
Posts: 1
Good luck with your recovery. Getting positive support is a great first step.All the best.


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