The men I acted out with were acting out as well. Many of them did NOT care about me or what happened to me. I was left battered, bloodied and without consciousness. My mouth and ass were used, stretched and inserted to achieve the maximum pleasure - Rape. I believed I deserved it. At times, I still believe I deserved it. It has taken lots of therapy both individual and group to "understand" I deserve true intimacy.
Every man deserves to be comforted and treated with respect. We all deserve to know we are "safe."