I think this article is pretty good.
I know a lot of gay people feel this way, that if you say that you are Bi-sexual, it's another way of saying "by (Bi) the way, I'm gay." This is what I was told when some gay guy on the street wanted me to sigh a protest sheet in NYC for Gay-Rights, but the guy didn't believe Bi-sexuality existed, so I refused to sign his sheet for being close-minded.
"Terrible thing to live in Fear"-Shawshank Redemption
WOR Alumnus Hope Springs 2009
"Quite a thing to live in fear, this is what is means to be a slave"