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#373369 - 10/25/11 09:56 PM Re: Step 2? [Re: Gretta]
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Registered: 07/28/10
Posts: 476
I would seriously have a hard time controlling myself around my ex's perps...of ANY sort of abuse. Arggggghhhh.


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#373390 - 10/26/11 02:19 AM Re: Step 2? [Re: Esposa]
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Registered: 05/07/11
Posts: 1734
Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
Hi Esposa

I am really happy that he is reaching out, overjoyed. It is the beginning of the healing process, well the second step at least.

Don't forget one thing

Your husband doesn't want to be like this, he too wants to be better, our acting out is a form of reaching out, and looking for help, love and attention.
We to want to be well.

Martin

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#373412 - 10/26/11 10:57 AM Re: Step 2? [Re: whome]
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Registered: 10/19/11
Posts: 675
Loc: NJ
Thank you Martin.

He is returning to couples therapy with me today, it's been a week since he told his story for the first time to me and to this therapist. I am so incredibly happy that he is coming. I can't put it into words.

Last night I told him that I knew he loved me and that I forgive him for some of the pain in the last couple of months, and that I wasn't going to let him go and he replied "Thank God." And I smiled and thought of you Martin, because I have read your posts and I have spent too much time feeling hurt by him in the past few months.


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#373414 - 10/26/11 11:55 AM Re: Step 2? [Re: Esposa]
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Esposa

Your story, you and your husband, have brought a tear to my eye. God bless you both, love him, but don't let him give you any cr*&
Please keep us posted, you are both in our payers.

Martin

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