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#372211 - 10/12/11 10:43 AM Intrinsic being
1lifenow Offline


Registered: 03/07/11
Posts: 393
Loc: west coast
Came across this today.

Sort of self explanatory. We here all know how tough this issue is. I get that scoopy doo, WTF shaggy expression when I come across stuff like this.

http://www.exgaywatch.com/wp/2011/10/former-ex-gay-leader-smid-can-no-longer-condemn-gays/

Also:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoU5YUf_aXI&feature=player_detailpage

It's nice to see objective rationality can prevail.

Further:
http://borngay.procon.org/

And specifically:

http://borngay.procon.org/

Ultimately:
crazy + T, time and compassion = smile



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#372224 - 10/12/11 04:17 PM Re: Intrinsic being [Re: 1lifenow]
Bradley P Offline


Registered: 11/03/10
Posts: 44
Loc: AR
I don't understand why we are so adamant that a homosexually oriented person cannot change orientation, yet I see all the time that people say sexuality is fluid, and that there are no labels, etc...So that would seem to say then that the only fixed label that is unmutable is the 100% homosexually oriented person. Yet don't we say that nobody is 100% oriented towards either gender?? I'm confused...

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#372245 - 10/12/11 08:43 PM Re: Intrinsic being [Re: Bradley P]
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Registered: 09/02/11
Posts: 229
Loc: United States
I have flowed from one to the other depending on who I fall in love with the person not the gender and I know many people who have had this in their lives with no confusion. Labels are created to be able to make judgments and put things in their place by someone else's standards.

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