Be determined, gentle reader, to move up, not simply on. Students get "moved on" in class because the system allows below average academia, the poor and homeless get "moved on" with the law demanding "not in my backyard", and male sexual abuse survivors get "moved on", even if we tell about the abuse, act out against the terror of the trauma, yes even when we survive.
Wait! First, heal. Hold. Sit with the pain. Struggle. Adapt. Go back, go down. Make mistakes. When you discover the root of your dysfunction, recover! Push through the pain, reach for the reward of exertion, and move up.
"Move Up" do not simply "Move On".