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#368967 - 08/26/11 10:06 PM Children sexually abused on Pakistan's streets
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http://news.yahoo.com/children-sexually-abused-pakistans-streets-072740116.html

Nadeem knows first hand the misery of life on the streets. Sexually assaulted as a child, he became a pimp of young boys -- the only way he knew how to survive as a member of Pakistan's underclass.
He says he was 12 years old when he was attacked. Since then, he has been dragged into a vicious cycle of horrifying abuse allegedly aided and abetted by police and which few are willing to confront in the Muslim country.
"It was just the third night I slept on a street when a policeman picked me up and did bad things to me. I cried a lot but no one came to help me," Nadeem, now 17, told AFP.
He was sexually assaulted for a second time by the leader of a street gang, who then forced Nadeem to join the 17 other children in his gang.
By 14 he was a full-time sex worker. His pimp gave him a mobile phone to keep in contact with clients.
According to charities which work to protect street children in Pakistan, up to 90 percent are sexually abused on the first night that they sleep rough and 60 percent accuse police of sexually abusing them.
"Children on the street are beaten, tortured, sexually assaulted, and sometimes killed," said Rana Asif Habib, head of the Initiator Human Development Foundation (IHDF).
"Police (should) protect people. When policemen are themselves involved in molesting children, who will protect them?" he asks.
"What we have gathered in our research is that policemen make up more than 60 percent of those who physically torment, sexually harass street children," said Anwer Kazmi of the Edhi Foundation, the country's largest charity.
Karachi is home to Pakistan?s biggest community of street children -- tens of thousands of victims of domestic violence and broken homes, drugs and crime, in the steamy port city.
More than 170,000 street children live on the streets across the country.
Illiterate, uneducated and most without family, the children can grow into seasoned criminals, drug addicts or fall prey to Islamist militancy.
When Nadeem turned 16, he tried to escape. He received counselling from a charity and was taught photography. He tried to make it his profession.
"I was happy with my work, but a year ago, a policeman put me in the lockup on a false charge, confiscated my camera and abused me sexually," he said.
The experience turned him against the world.
"I decided to become stronger. Now I have my own gang and many influential people are my clients. No one can touch me now."
Nadeem says he acts as a pimp to 10 teenage sex workers aged 14-18, taking a sizeable cut of whatever the boys bring in earnings.
"Half an hour after finishing with one client I get another call and I forget all about wanting a respectable life."
Nadeem lives on a street in the downtown Saddar neighbourhood, but rents a room in a cheap hotel when he has surplus cash. He confesses that he too sexually assaulted a child.
"He insulted me and my family so I told him he had it coming. So I grabbed him and gave it to him. I still remember that night. I haven't done that to anyone else since then and I don't want to."
Rizwan is a fisherman's son. He insists he is 12, but he looks much younger. He left home three years ago because his family beat him and says he was abused by police. IHDF fears he too will be dragged into the sex industry.
"The police tried to make me do bad things six or seven times but I managed to get away," he said.
"But one day, one policeman took me by force, put a cloth over my mouth and took me to a place where he did bad things."
Shaukat Hussain, head of police in Karachi's southern district where many street children live, said any officers found guilty would be punished, but denied the force was anything like as culpable as reported.
"There are black sheep in our department who are involved in such acts. But we punish anyone whose crime comes to surface and is proved," he told AFP.
"The number of policemen who are involved in such acts is far less than what is being claimed by the media and NGOs," he added.
Pakistan offers little protection to vulnerable children.
"A draft bill for child protection has been pending with the interior ministry for two years," a senior official of the human rights ministry told AFP on condition of anonymity as he was not authorised to talk to the media.
The bill is designed to tighten the laws protecting children, bringing them in line with international conventions, doing more to help children in difficulty and bringing police and other offenders to book for abusing minors.
"There is a visible lack of interest on the part of the government on this issue... despite our constant pursuits," said the ministry official.
One former police official told AFP that he organised seminars to sensitise police on how to treat street children four years ago, but that the programme was abruptly abandoned when he retired.

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#368991 - 08/27/11 10:05 AM Re: Children sexually abused on Pakistan's streets [Re: SamV]
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There is no problem, it is just those NGO's. Bottom line is that too many that are attracted to police work are bullies. Interesting in the US now that Dash cams are regular equipment in patrol cars how many police are busted in stuff they used to simply deny happened. Of course, in many cases now, the dash cam video is lost or damaged.

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#369013 - 08/27/11 07:24 PM Re: Children sexually abused on Pakistan's streets [Re: SamV]
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Street children the world over are abused both physically and sexually by authorities. In places like Columbia and Brazil there have been reports of business people employing death squads to have them eliminated like pests while the authorities turn a blind eye. Even here in the west our authorities are complicit in the sexual abuse of street children. For example, why is it that an under age teenage child is treated like a criminal if found involved in prostitution while the john walks away with barely a fine? If the same child were sexually abused by someone while living at home then that kid would be extended care and compassion while the perp would receive a serious consequence. Somehow our laws came around to say that its OK for adults to have sex with children so long as there‘s an exchange of money involved. Forgive me for feeling strongly about this but as a former street youth who was sexually abused by more than on perp while on the streets I can’t help it.

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#369021 - 08/28/11 12:28 AM Re: Children sexually abused on Pakistan's streets [Re: jls]
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Edited by pufferfish (08/28/11 12:33 AM)

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#441918 - 07/23/13 06:29 PM Re: Children sexually abused on Pakistan's streets [Re: SamV]
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a documentary video
http://theduckshoot.com/child-sex-trafficking-indias-shame/

here are some reports from ecpat int'l

http://ecpat.net/EI/Publications/Trafficking/Factsheet_India.pdf

http://www.ecpat.net/EI/Publications/Tra...al_Purposes.pdf

ECPAT http://www.ecpat.net/
is a global network of organisations and
individuals working together to eliminate child
prostitution, child pornography and the
trafficking of children for sexual purposes.

an article
Rescuing Victims of Sex Trafficking
http://womennewsnetwork.net/2013/05/10/resuing-victims-of-sex-trafficking/

some hard facts
http://www.childlineindia.org.in/child-trafficking-india.htm
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#442097 - 07/25/13 04:18 AM Re: Children sexually abused on Pakistan's streets [Re: SamV]
Jacob S Offline
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We like to think of society as a civilized place with a few villains in hiding. More and more, I'm thinking its the other way around.
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just stay alive.
do whatever you need to.
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#442218 - 07/26/13 08:14 AM Re: Children sexually abused on Pakistan's streets [Re: SamV]
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So basically, the 17 year old who is an abuser himself in various different ways is a "victim" because he was abused, while the cops (who in many cases probably were abused too, but this possibility naturally isn't mentioned in the article) are vicious monsters? This article is naming cops as the main reason for this huge social problem and at the same time pretty much suggesting that it's natural for abused children to become abusers themselves.

This paradox exists all over the world and it fucks up peoples perspective of what abuse is and what it does to people. You're not less of an abuser just because you were fucked as a kid as well, everyone who says things like "it's the only thing he knew" are fucking idiots.

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