I know I might seem strange, but I don't find his split personality a scary topic at all. As a matter of fact, it seems almost second nature to me, because it is so obvious in his dealings with me, it feels very natural dealing with two people.
What he suffered is scary!
Turns out, I misunderstood him. He's reading the book slowly because it's intense for him. Of course for me, it wasn't intense at all, just interesting.
Also, I've seen again a habit he has: Turns out, he had decided to change therapists earlier this year, and he has already got a new therapist he's been seeing for 2 months, that specializes in... okay, I forgot to ask what the speciality was. Child abuse or split personalities.....?
Anyway, I see him do that sometimes. He'll tell me he's going to do something that he has already done. It's as though he's not sure he wants to tell me something, and he wants to weigh it before he does, so he tells me a story until he makes his decision.
Anyway, he's getting better, but I'm bowing out. Just nothing here for me. I've helped. I'm done. I like hanging around here, though, and when I have time, encouraging the guys.
Thanks for your comments, Martin. Welcome as always!