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#365420 - 07/04/11 09:23 AM Is this normal?
onlyakid Offline
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This is going to be embarrassing but is it normal for a kid to try on his mothers bathing suit. I honestly don't recall if it was before or after the abuse

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#365432 - 07/04/11 10:54 AM Re: Is this normal? [Re: onlyakid]
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Yes-it is not unusual to try this as a boy

To repeat this in your teens is another story-and would probably have it's roots in childhood-

As always, I try to look deeper and ask myself "what was this behavior really about?" "what was I trying to accomplish".

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