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#365494 - 07/05/11 04:46 PM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Mountainous Buck]
Riley Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 01/11/09
Posts: 597
Loc: USA
Hey sailboat,

I found many friends on here just by PMing people whose posts I related to.

Another great resource I found is some form of retreat. I went to Mike Lews workshop during the MS Conference and met so many great people that I am still in contact with, in fact I just celebrated the 4th with a friend from the conference and had a blast. I think there is something happening in Hartford soon, but I'm not positive. I believe their will be another conference in NYC next year. Also while I have never been to a MS retreat, I hear of alot of friendships being made their.


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#365514 - 07/05/11 11:08 PM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: SamV]
Sailboat92 Offline


Registered: 02/21/11
Posts: 79
Loc: Ct
Thank you, I just don't even no where to start, honestly...

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#365522 - 07/06/11 12:03 AM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Sailboat92]
SamV Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5942
Loc: Talladega, Alabama, USA
Good news, you have already started!

Now, the trick to continuing... 1) Be yourself 2) Say what you want 3) Watch us fall over ourselves replying to your thoughts with support and experiences that tell you how much in common we have with each other.

Did I miss anything?

Sam

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#365766 - 07/10/11 11:53 PM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: derf215]
Sailboat92 Offline


Registered: 02/21/11
Posts: 79
Loc: Ct
I'm so sorry, your letter broke my heart..what an ache...I feel like I'm going crazy, too Late to explain, as I need some rest..I am so struck and appreciative of your candor, and just feel so sad for what you have recently gone through!!
Life sucks sometimes

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#365880 - 07/12/11 10:39 PM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Riley]
Sailboat92 Offline


Registered: 02/21/11
Posts: 79
Loc: Ct
Any news on a Hartford event?

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#450933 - 10/22/13 06:26 AM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Sailboat92]
mikeg Offline


Registered: 10/17/13
Posts: 8
Loc: South Africa
new here!

would like to make friends aswell, one that i can rely on,I was looking at all the wrong places, why is it that all friendships must be, drinking, sports etc,

I know its hard, finding friends, due to my trust issues,but I do think most of the people here, do feel the same

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#450961 - 10/22/13 10:11 AM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Sailboat92]
jas4159 Offline


Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 300
I read all of Mike lews books and have spokenn with him on a few occations. he is outstanding.

rich,

my blog: justanothersurvivror.wordpress.com
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Thanks

rich

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#459500 - 01/27/14 09:39 AM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Sailboat92]
mikeg Offline


Registered: 10/17/13
Posts: 8
Loc: South Africa
looking for a friend here, to talk about anything

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#459509 - 01/27/14 12:47 PM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Sailboat92]
On The Fringe Offline


Registered: 09/21/13
Posts: 326
Loc: Southeast USA
Just message people. We are all just normal guys some twisted things happened to. At a point you become yourself, and not defined by your abuse.

You can message me. My friend qualifications are: I'm somewhat of an asshole, I can't always verbalized how I think or feel, and some days I would rather just ride my Harley than deal with the wife or other people.

Roll with it the best you can. It takes some time to get to feel comfortable in your own skin.
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#459521 - 01/27/14 02:49 PM Re: I need a friend, no fakes anymore [Re: Sailboat92]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada
love.
care.
listen.
share.
be yourself. be honest.
be gentle. be kind.
you'll be surprised,
how many friends you'll find.
the person standing next to you
might be the friend you never knew.
live to love, and love to serve,
learn to give without reserve.
if you expect love in return,
you will keep getting burned,
until you have learned,
that love cannot be "earned".
love must be given
and then received.
it can't be taken.
don't be deceived.

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Love
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