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#371499 - 10/02/11 10:34 AM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: lapchinj]
lapchinj Offline
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Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1184
Loc: New York
Peace,Rainbows & Healing


Edited by lapchinj (03/16/13 04:49 PM)
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Stick around, It will get better....

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#371506 - 10/02/11 01:59 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: lapchinj]
Driftwood Offline


Registered: 05/27/11
Posts: 86
Loc: Colorado
Jeff

My heart is full for you and your wife.
I'll be thinking of you in the days to come.


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#371524 - 10/02/11 05:45 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: GoodHope]
SamV Offline
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Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5942
Loc: Talladega, Alabama, USA
Jeff,

I am proud of you for gathering local support in your disclosure, well done survivor. Keep sharing, keep thinking on how to benefit your wonderful self, knowing that each brightened part of you makes the world around you lighter.
Keep recovering.

Sam

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#371578 - 10/03/11 05:21 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: SamV]
whome Offline
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Registered: 05/07/11
Posts: 1734
Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
Wow old man Wow

I cant tell you how I feel at this point. It is almost as though my child has gotten 100% for an exam. Pride, unashamed Pride.

Well done, I am so happy for you. Welcome to another step in recovery. Your story is what for me makes it worth while sitting here night after night reading and chatting.
You sir are inspiration to many many people here.
I look forward to your next post, and cherish the truth that you have exuded on the site to other members.

WHAT HAS BEEN MOST IMPRESSIVE, is the honesty that you have now afforded your partner of so many years.

I know that this story will have a fairytale ending, that your beloved wife will stand by you and support you through this healing. Your story sir has truly, truly touched me.

GOD BLESS, and keep us posted.

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#371592 - 10/03/11 09:40 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: whome]
lapchinj Offline
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Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1184
Loc: New York
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Edited by lapchinj (03/16/13 04:49 PM)
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Stick around, It will get better....

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#371606 - 10/03/11 10:36 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: lapchinj]
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Registered: 01/30/09
Posts: 265
Loc: Undisclosed
Jeff, your actions are incredibly courageous. I am amazed. Look at you now!

Just wanted to say that I admire the steps you have taken and I understand how terrified you felt to step off the ledge and tell your wife your experiences.

Keep putting one foot forward in front of the other.


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#371609 - 10/03/11 11:04 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: whome]
lapchinj Offline
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Registered: 06/07/11
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Loc: New York
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Edited by lapchinj (03/16/13 04:49 PM)
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Stick around, It will get better....

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#371610 - 10/03/11 11:13 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: SamV]
lapchinj Offline
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Registered: 06/07/11
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Loc: New York
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Edited by lapchinj (03/16/13 04:49 PM)
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Stick around, It will get better....

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#371655 - 10/04/11 02:50 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: lapchinj]
happybuddha1 Offline


Registered: 05/19/09
Posts: 85
Loc: Michigan
Thank you so much for your post......I am in a similar position but scared shitless to tell my wife....having that sense of being unloved from the CSA, my brain tells me that she would leave in a heartbeat. I am sure that I am wrong, but I cannot do it.....fear has been a big part of my life, both from CSA and an alchoholic father....baby steps, huh?

You give me inspiration....thank you for that!

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A scared little boy who is trying to heal and feel again..

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#371663 - 10/04/11 04:26 PM Re: Hi - It took me approximately 40 years to get here [Re: happybuddha1]
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Registered: 02/13/04
Posts: 980
Loc: HULBERT OK
When I told my father about being raped . The reaction was shock , then tears . I had neaver seen my father cry up to that point in my life . Seeing him cry caused me a lot of pain. because i had hurt him .

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"I HAD NO SHOES THEN I SAW A MAN THAT HAD NO FEET"

"All I can do is be me, whoever that is"

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